"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girlfriend to blame for nofap failure?

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We have sex every day but I also fap about once a day as well. Relationship is good (she does most of the chasing, etc) but I do remember having better sex with exs. Also I think my fapping is just as frequent as it was when I was single for 6+ months.

It's crossed my mind that maybe this girl is the problem (she is very attractive however, a tinder 9). Anyone else have this problem? What did you do about it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dan Bautista

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I thought this was going to be some thread where your girlfriend forced you to masturbate somehow. Your lack of self-control is to blame for breaking your nofap streak, not the fact that you don't enjoy sex with your girlfriend as much.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Tell her to watch your porn with you so that you 2 fvck like that. Or tell her that you want to fvck like pornstars and do crazy sh!t like they do. That'll make the sex so much hotter.
 

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Nobody is to blame for your **** but you.
I couldn't type this fast enough. What your saying is like saying:

I don't really like my house I'm renting, so I broke into another one. Isn't it my landlord's fault?

Find a way to start enjoying sex more with your GF. If you don't, the relationship won't last much longer. Maybe excessive masturbation has something to do with it. If you find that there just isn't any sexual chemistry than you need to cut your losses. Sex is the most important part of a relationship for a man.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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