After deleting and blocking ex gf from facebook and linkedin, I was doing the same on whatsapp but accidentally called her. I terminated the call immediatelly and after also blocked her there, but now she might be thinking i actually wanted to reach her. I feel like an idiot now...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girlfriend texts
- Thread starter Juanto
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
daddymonsterpoodle
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Keep broken up but if you play it right you might have someone to see if you visit her city. All it takes is a minimal text very occassionally. "how you getting on?", "I hope you survived that nasty weathet" just to keep you on her radar. Then when you go up there, hook up for drinks and....
Thought had crossed my mind for the future, but after blocking her on all possible platforms and ignoring her completely, would she still agree to that...?!
daddymonsterpoodle
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How would I know.? LOL
Women are suckers for honesty and the "feels"
Tell her you were angry when you blocked her, you had so many good times together that it would be really sad if you couldnt remain in touch at all.
Yeah, it sounds bluepill but you arent promising anything or committing to 'just being friends'. It gives her a chance to let her hamster spin and think about missing you. Leave it at that and let her do the work, if she doesnt respond you have lost 20 secs doing a text message... No big deal.
Plan B... Treat her and you like an open relationship although never state that out loud. You cant control who she is banging any more than she can control you. It is what it is, just enjoy the moment.
Plan C... Never contact the branch swinging ho again and unless your town has a population of you, find someone closer.
Women are suckers for honesty and the "feels"
Tell her you were angry when you blocked her, you had so many good times together that it would be really sad if you couldnt remain in touch at all.
Yeah, it sounds bluepill but you arent promising anything or committing to 'just being friends'. It gives her a chance to let her hamster spin and think about missing you. Leave it at that and let her do the work, if she doesnt respond you have lost 20 secs doing a text message... No big deal.
Plan B... Treat her and you like an open relationship although never state that out loud. You cant control who she is banging any more than she can control you. It is what it is, just enjoy the moment.
Plan C... Never contact the branch swinging ho again and unless your town has a population of you, find someone closer.
As expected, she called me back through normal line (since i blocked her everywhere else....) to ask if I called her back the day before, and because i deleted her number and never memorized it I picked up. I said no, if it happened it must have been a pocket dial mistake. So after 30 seconds of chit chat, I said I had to go as I was entering a stadium, and said bye. Hopefully now she wont call back anymore and definately got the hint....
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.