After deleting and blocking ex gf from facebook and linkedin, I was doing the same on whatsapp but accidentally called her. I terminated the call immediatelly and after also blocked her there, but now she might be thinking i actually wanted to reach her. I feel like an idiot now...
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Keep broken up but if you play it right you might have someone to see if you visit her city. All it takes is a minimal text very occassionally. "how you getting on?", "I hope you survived that nasty weathet" just to keep you on her radar. Then when you go up there, hook up for drinks and....
Thought had crossed my mind for the future, but after blocking her on all possible platforms and ignoring her completely, would she still agree to that...?!
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How would I know.? LOL
Women are suckers for honesty and the "feels"
Tell her you were angry when you blocked her, you had so many good times together that it would be really sad if you couldnt remain in touch at all.
Yeah, it sounds bluepill but you arent promising anything or committing to 'just being friends'. It gives her a chance to let her hamster spin and think about missing you. Leave it at that and let her do the work, if she doesnt respond you have lost 20 secs doing a text message... No big deal.
Plan B... Treat her and you like an open relationship although never state that out loud. You cant control who she is banging any more than she can control you. It is what it is, just enjoy the moment.
Plan C... Never contact the branch swinging ho again and unless your town has a population of you, find someone closer.
Women are suckers for honesty and the "feels"
Tell her you were angry when you blocked her, you had so many good times together that it would be really sad if you couldnt remain in touch at all.
Yeah, it sounds bluepill but you arent promising anything or committing to 'just being friends'. It gives her a chance to let her hamster spin and think about missing you. Leave it at that and let her do the work, if she doesnt respond you have lost 20 secs doing a text message... No big deal.
Plan B... Treat her and you like an open relationship although never state that out loud. You cant control who she is banging any more than she can control you. It is what it is, just enjoy the moment.
Plan C... Never contact the branch swinging ho again and unless your town has a population of you, find someone closer.
As expected, she called me back through normal line (since i blocked her everywhere else....) to ask if I called her back the day before, and because i deleted her number and never memorized it I picked up. I said no, if it happened it must have been a pocket dial mistake. So after 30 seconds of chit chat, I said I had to go as I was entering a stadium, and said bye. Hopefully now she wont call back anymore and definately got the hint....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.