After deleting and blocking ex gf from facebook and linkedin, I was doing the same on whatsapp but accidentally called her. I terminated the call immediatelly and after also blocked her there, but now she might be thinking i actually wanted to reach her. I feel like an idiot now...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Keep broken up but if you play it right you might have someone to see if you visit her city. All it takes is a minimal text very occassionally. "how you getting on?", "I hope you survived that nasty weathet" just to keep you on her radar. Then when you go up there, hook up for drinks and....
Thought had crossed my mind for the future, but after blocking her on all possible platforms and ignoring her completely, would she still agree to that...?!
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How would I know.? LOL
Women are suckers for honesty and the "feels"
Tell her you were angry when you blocked her, you had so many good times together that it would be really sad if you couldnt remain in touch at all.
Yeah, it sounds bluepill but you arent promising anything or committing to 'just being friends'. It gives her a chance to let her hamster spin and think about missing you. Leave it at that and let her do the work, if she doesnt respond you have lost 20 secs doing a text message... No big deal.
Plan B... Treat her and you like an open relationship although never state that out loud. You cant control who she is banging any more than she can control you. It is what it is, just enjoy the moment.
Plan C... Never contact the branch swinging ho again and unless your town has a population of you, find someone closer.
Women are suckers for honesty and the "feels"
Tell her you were angry when you blocked her, you had so many good times together that it would be really sad if you couldnt remain in touch at all.
Yeah, it sounds bluepill but you arent promising anything or committing to 'just being friends'. It gives her a chance to let her hamster spin and think about missing you. Leave it at that and let her do the work, if she doesnt respond you have lost 20 secs doing a text message... No big deal.
Plan B... Treat her and you like an open relationship although never state that out loud. You cant control who she is banging any more than she can control you. It is what it is, just enjoy the moment.
Plan C... Never contact the branch swinging ho again and unless your town has a population of you, find someone closer.
As expected, she called me back through normal line (since i blocked her everywhere else....) to ask if I called her back the day before, and because i deleted her number and never memorized it I picked up. I said no, if it happened it must have been a pocket dial mistake. So after 30 seconds of chit chat, I said I had to go as I was entering a stadium, and said bye. Hopefully now she wont call back anymore and definately got the hint....
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.