"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girlfriend talking to past hookups...

illmatic1005

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Is it okay to let your girlfriend talk and be friends with past hookups?

I dont talk to my past hookups, and one girl i almost did hook up with, my gf wont let me talkto her (just her tho,it was a whole big mess and i understand it)

But she is still friends and talks to all herpast hookups. One dude even hurt her badly and she told him "we can stillbe friends"

she said why end on bad terms if she can end on good terms and knows nothing will happend anyway?

should i let her talk to past hookups or confront her about it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonGorgon

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First of you said "let your girlfriend" ... lol women do as they please with their PU$$Y and that is what she is doing... you cant stop her and if you try no more PU$$Y for you... Just let her by the ho she is and eithe stay and play or go find a good woman who doesnt cheat on you...
 

trv26

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hmmm.....I dont think there was anything in his post that suggests his gf is a ho or is cheating, so I d say wat u said was totally unnecessary "Master Don Juan".
 

DonGorgon

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trv26 said:
hmmm.....I dont think there was anything in his post that suggests his gf is a ho or is cheating, so I d say wat u said was totally unnecessary "Master Don Juan".
You didnt read between the lines.. its all there.. he knows whats going on but he is in the denial phase....
 

trv26

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I dont see anything wrong YET. But then again im no expert.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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splinterkb

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It all depends on how YOU feel about it.. not what other people tell you to think. If you're ok with it.. cool. If you're not.. tell her.
 

SickAgain

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Everyday it's something new about illmatic's chick making him feel insecure. Just dump her already. I think it's obvious she doesn't respect you very much and thus isn't into you.
 

MooseGod

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First red flag was "my girlfriend doesn't let me..."

Play fair. If she talks to past hookups, you talk to past hookups. Let her sweat a little.

The way to play it like a real DJ is "sure, you can do whatever you want, I'm not your damn dad" but subconsciously let her know if she ****s up, she's going to be gone so fast it'll make her head spin.
 
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