"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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illmatic1005

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Is it okay to let your girlfriend talk and be friends with past hookups?

I dont talk to my past hookups, and one girl i almost did hook up with, my gf wont let me talkto her (just her tho,it was a whole big mess and i understand it)

But she is still friends and talks to all herpast hookups. One dude even hurt her badly and she told him "we can stillbe friends"

she said why end on bad terms if she can end on good terms and knows nothing will happend anyway?

should i let her talk to past hookups or confront her about it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonGorgon

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First of you said "let your girlfriend" ... lol women do as they please with their PU$$Y and that is what she is doing... you cant stop her and if you try no more PU$$Y for you... Just let her by the ho she is and eithe stay and play or go find a good woman who doesnt cheat on you...
 
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hmmm.....I dont think there was anything in his post that suggests his gf is a ho or is cheating, so I d say wat u said was totally unnecessary "Master Don Juan".
 
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DonGorgon

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trv26 said:
hmmm.....I dont think there was anything in his post that suggests his gf is a ho or is cheating, so I d say wat u said was totally unnecessary "Master Don Juan".
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You didnt read between the lines.. its all there.. he knows whats going on but he is in the denial phase....
 
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trv26

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I dont see anything wrong YET. But then again im no expert.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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splinterkb

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It all depends on how YOU feel about it.. not what other people tell you to think. If you're ok with it.. cool. If you're not.. tell her.
 
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SickAgain

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Everyday it's something new about illmatic's chick making him feel insecure. Just dump her already. I think it's obvious she doesn't respect you very much and thus isn't into you.
 
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MooseGod

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First red flag was "my girlfriend doesn't let me..."

Play fair. If she talks to past hookups, you talk to past hookups. Let her sweat a little.

The way to play it like a real DJ is "sure, you can do whatever you want, I'm not your damn dad" but subconsciously let her know if she ****s up, she's going to be gone so fast it'll make her head spin.
 
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