Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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illmatic1005

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Is it okay to let your girlfriend talk and be friends with past hookups?

I dont talk to my past hookups, and one girl i almost did hook up with, my gf wont let me talkto her (just her tho,it was a whole big mess and i understand it)

But she is still friends and talks to all herpast hookups. One dude even hurt her badly and she told him "we can stillbe friends"

she said why end on bad terms if she can end on good terms and knows nothing will happend anyway?

should i let her talk to past hookups or confront her about it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonGorgon

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First of you said "let your girlfriend" ... lol women do as they please with their PU$$Y and that is what she is doing... you cant stop her and if you try no more PU$$Y for you... Just let her by the ho she is and eithe stay and play or go find a good woman who doesnt cheat on you...
 
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hmmm.....I dont think there was anything in his post that suggests his gf is a ho or is cheating, so I d say wat u said was totally unnecessary "Master Don Juan".
 
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DonGorgon

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trv26 said:
hmmm.....I dont think there was anything in his post that suggests his gf is a ho or is cheating, so I d say wat u said was totally unnecessary "Master Don Juan".
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You didnt read between the lines.. its all there.. he knows whats going on but he is in the denial phase....
 
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trv26

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I dont see anything wrong YET. But then again im no expert.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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splinterkb

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It all depends on how YOU feel about it.. not what other people tell you to think. If you're ok with it.. cool. If you're not.. tell her.
 
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SickAgain

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Everyday it's something new about illmatic's chick making him feel insecure. Just dump her already. I think it's obvious she doesn't respect you very much and thus isn't into you.
 
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First red flag was "my girlfriend doesn't let me..."

Play fair. If she talks to past hookups, you talk to past hookups. Let her sweat a little.

The way to play it like a real DJ is "sure, you can do whatever you want, I'm not your damn dad" but subconsciously let her know if she ****s up, she's going to be gone so fast it'll make her head spin.
 
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