Girlfriend talking to past hookups...

[illmatic1005]

Is it okay to let your girlfriend talk and be friends with past hookups?

I dont talk to my past hookups, and one girl i almost did hook up with, my gf wont let me talkto her (just her tho,it was a whole big mess and i understand it)

But she is still friends and talks to all herpast hookups. One dude even hurt her badly and she told him "we can stillbe friends"

she said why end on bad terms if she can end on good terms and knows nothing will happend anyway?

should i let her talk to past hookups or confront her about it?

 

[DonGorgon]

First of you said "let your girlfriend" ... lol women do as they please with their PU$$Y and that is what she is doing... you cant stop her and if you try no more PU$$Y for you... Just let her by the ho she is and eithe stay and play or go find a good woman who doesnt cheat on you...

 

[trv26]

hmmm.....I dont think there was anything in his post that suggests his gf is a ho or is cheating, so I d say wat u said was totally unnecessary "Master Don Juan".

 

[DonGorgon]

hmmm.....I dont think there was anything in his post that suggests his gf is a ho or is cheating, so I d say wat u said was totally unnecessary "Master Don Juan".

You didnt read between the lines.. its all there.. he knows whats going on but he is in the denial phase....

 

[trv26]

I dont see anything wrong YET. But then again im no expert.

 

[splinterkb]

It all depends on how YOU feel about it.. not what other people tell you to think. If you're ok with it.. cool. If you're not.. tell her.

 

[DonGorgon]

I dont see anything wrong YET. But then again im no expert.

Well i guess we can all wait and se then... I wish him luck

 

[SickAgain]

Everyday it's something new about illmatic's chick making him feel insecure. Just dump her already. I think it's obvious she doesn't respect you very much and thus isn't into you.

 

[MooseGod]

First red flag was "my girlfriend doesn't let me..."

Play fair. If she talks to past hookups, you talk to past hookups. Let her sweat a little.

The way to play it like a real DJ is "sure, you can do whatever you want, I'm not your damn dad" but subconsciously let her know if she ****s up, she's going to be gone so fast it'll make her head spin.