Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yep - I would have been GONE the second she started blabbing about her ex and how he emotionally damaged her. If you have an alpha widow on your hands it is always best just to leave.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
As a man i find this very hard to understand. And this is how ex was able to drive me mad with anger by starting argument about insignificant things that was going much deeper
Men are so easily duped that it was them. It’s a total mind fuk. Men walking around thinking they lost her because he accidentally ran over her teddy bear or didn’t seem too verly concerned that her mom was mean to her.
He said he laid an hb8 same night or day after the breakup. If he has the ability to pull an hb8 right after a breakup I don't see why he's still pining over a 40 something, emotionally damaged, single mom out of town.
Here is the thing.. I do recruitment and deliver training for my company.. We have young chicks come and go on a daily basis in our training academy.. Most are prime to ****.. The temptation is always there.. Currently have a 19 year old who wants to suck hard on my nut sack.. But I don't think mixing business with pleasure is the way forward.
Well you emotionally invested and that comes with risks. Try to invest wisely now…
This will always be the case. There is no exception. There is always someone else. The one who got away.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Not necessarily. She was looking to get dumped like her ex dumped her to re-ignite those feelings of abandonment and lust. If not from OP, then from someone else.
Bruv this is why I feel this break up is exactly what I needed.. A fukin wake up call..
Wisest words.. All day!
They become addicted to ****bag men because truthfully THATS WHAT THEY WANT. There’s no such thing is “ooops I didn’t know he was a jackass for the 7 years I dated him”. You know why? Because when they date a guy like you that treats them halfway decent, they run the other way. Those girls are pros and know how to suck you in though, it’s happened to me. Now when I meet a girl and she tells me how bad her ex was I run the other way, I save myself the trouble because I know how it’ll end up. Everything is sunshine and roses at first and she will tell you how wonderful you are, a man like she’s never dated, you’ll buy into it and then bam.....you get the exit you got.
Bruv... Anyone can call me what they want on here... But from here on I will treat every woman that I meet like a fukin professional C#Nt..
Lol exactly, "she left me because she said I didn't send her good morning text to show her she was the first person I though about when I woke up"
The million dollar secret though is you can’t be Mr Super Jackass too early to them. They’ll run off. You have to suck them in somehow and then start treating them like crap. Like a gradual thing.
Fuk these cvnts!
Bombard them with love and effection initialy.. Give them lots of attention... Then gradually take there drug away from them..
