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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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Girlfriend insists that she is on my AIM/MSN away message..

shark

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Yah so the past few days she insists that she is on my away message. (when away from computer, you have a message coming up when someone contacts you). Usually it's just like "out..call the cell" but i've been adding her into them. I'm in hers too ALL the time now.

Is this bad? Can i stop? This is silly, but I don't want to do anything wrong even if it's a stupid thing like this.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by shark
Yah so the past few days she insists that she is on my away message. (when away from computer, you have a message coming up when someone contacts you). Usually it's just like "out..call the cell" but i've been adding her into them. I'm in hers too ALL the time now.

Is this bad? Can i stop? This is silly, but I don't want to do anything wrong even if it's a stupid thing like this.
Thats retarded. I had an ex who got pissed at me cause i didnt mention her in my profile. I didnt change shyt and her ass got over it.
 

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Originally posted by shark
Yah so the past few days she insists that she is on my away message. (when away from computer, you have a message coming up when someone contacts you). Usually it's just like "out..call the cell" but i've been adding her into them. I'm in hers too ALL the time now.

Is this bad? Can i stop? This is silly, but I don't want to do anything wrong even if it's a stupid thing like this.
Tell her she can either go out with you, who has a normal MSN name, or she can find another boyfriend.

How petty and clingy of her.
 

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Re: Re: Girlfriend insists that she is on my AIM/MSN away message..

Originally posted by aftershock
Tell her she can either go out with you, who has a normal MSN name, or she can find another boyfriend.

How petty and clingy of her.
Wtf?

Dude, why does this even bother you? You are right, it is pretty damn silly, to let things like this even cross your mind!
 

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i think its kinda cute. haha. i wouldnt do it. maybe do it randomly one day .. (the day she doesnt tell u to do it) then dont do it again for awhile etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Put a different girls name on their.!!!
WHEN she gets mad tell her that Shanan is your grandma who is sick!!! ( and you have to be mad at her,:box: :cuss: ) <---getting mad ALWAYS works, what a good trick!!! You'll she how fast she'll come running back when you get mad at her!!!



EDIT:
Her: You put Jessica's name on their!!! Who is Jessica!!!:cuss:
You: Jessica is my fvcking grandmother who is in the hospital you selfish bitc h!!!! :cuss: :box:
Her: Im so sorry.:cry: :(
You: NOO, ITS NOT OK, DON'T TRY TO FIX IT.!!!!!:box:


SHE'LL WANT YOU BACK SO BAD THAT SHE'LL DO ANYTHING!!
 

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Originally posted by whyshy
Put a different girls name on their.!!!
WHEN she gets mad tell her that Shanan is your grandma who is sick!!! ( and you have to be mad at her,:box: :cuss: ) <---getting mad ALWAYS works, what a good trick!!! You'll she how fast she'll come running back when you get mad at her!!!
hahah, tats funny and clever.
 

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Originally posted by jenzos
ya but jessica doesnt seem very "grandmothery" hahaha
put sh1t like Ethel, and Patricia, grandma names!
 

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Yah good idea..:rolleyes:

I think I'll just not put her in all the time, only somtimes...
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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