"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girlfriend insists that she is on my AIM/MSN away message..

shark

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Yah so the past few days she insists that she is on my away message. (when away from computer, you have a message coming up when someone contacts you). Usually it's just like "out..call the cell" but i've been adding her into them. I'm in hers too ALL the time now.

Is this bad? Can i stop? This is silly, but I don't want to do anything wrong even if it's a stupid thing like this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by shark
Yah so the past few days she insists that she is on my away message. (when away from computer, you have a message coming up when someone contacts you). Usually it's just like "out..call the cell" but i've been adding her into them. I'm in hers too ALL the time now.

Is this bad? Can i stop? This is silly, but I don't want to do anything wrong even if it's a stupid thing like this.
Thats retarded. I had an ex who got pissed at me cause i didnt mention her in my profile. I didnt change shyt and her ass got over it.
 

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Originally posted by shark
Yah so the past few days she insists that she is on my away message. (when away from computer, you have a message coming up when someone contacts you). Usually it's just like "out..call the cell" but i've been adding her into them. I'm in hers too ALL the time now.

Is this bad? Can i stop? This is silly, but I don't want to do anything wrong even if it's a stupid thing like this.
Tell her she can either go out with you, who has a normal MSN name, or she can find another boyfriend.

How petty and clingy of her.
 

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Re: Re: Girlfriend insists that she is on my AIM/MSN away message..

Originally posted by aftershock
Tell her she can either go out with you, who has a normal MSN name, or she can find another boyfriend.

How petty and clingy of her.
Wtf?

Dude, why does this even bother you? You are right, it is pretty damn silly, to let things like this even cross your mind!
 

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i think its kinda cute. haha. i wouldnt do it. maybe do it randomly one day .. (the day she doesnt tell u to do it) then dont do it again for awhile etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Put a different girls name on their.!!!
WHEN she gets mad tell her that Shanan is your grandma who is sick!!! ( and you have to be mad at her,:box: :cuss: ) <---getting mad ALWAYS works, what a good trick!!! You'll she how fast she'll come running back when you get mad at her!!!



EDIT:
Her: You put Jessica's name on their!!! Who is Jessica!!!:cuss:
You: Jessica is my fvcking grandmother who is in the hospital you selfish bitc h!!!! :cuss: :box:
Her: Im so sorry.:cry: :(
You: NOO, ITS NOT OK, DON'T TRY TO FIX IT.!!!!!:box:


SHE'LL WANT YOU BACK SO BAD THAT SHE'LL DO ANYTHING!!
 

Inquire

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Originally posted by whyshy
Put a different girls name on their.!!!
WHEN she gets mad tell her that Shanan is your grandma who is sick!!! ( and you have to be mad at her,:box: :cuss: ) <---getting mad ALWAYS works, what a good trick!!! You'll she how fast she'll come running back when you get mad at her!!!
hahah, tats funny and clever.
 

brenbaus

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Originally posted by jenzos
ya but jessica doesnt seem very "grandmothery" hahaha
put sh1t like Ethel, and Patricia, grandma names!
 

shark

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Yah good idea..:rolleyes:

I think I'll just not put her in all the time, only somtimes...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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