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Girlfriend insists that she is on my AIM/MSN away message..

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Yah so the past few days she insists that she is on my away message. (when away from computer, you have a message coming up when someone contacts you). Usually it's just like "out..call the cell" but i've been adding her into them. I'm in hers too ALL the time now.

Is this bad? Can i stop? This is silly, but I don't want to do anything wrong even if it's a stupid thing like this.
 

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Originally posted by shark
Yah so the past few days she insists that she is on my away message. (when away from computer, you have a message coming up when someone contacts you). Usually it's just like "out..call the cell" but i've been adding her into them. I'm in hers too ALL the time now.

Is this bad? Can i stop? This is silly, but I don't want to do anything wrong even if it's a stupid thing like this.
Thats retarded. I had an ex who got pissed at me cause i didnt mention her in my profile. I didnt change shyt and her ass got over it.
 

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Originally posted by shark
Yah so the past few days she insists that she is on my away message. (when away from computer, you have a message coming up when someone contacts you). Usually it's just like "out..call the cell" but i've been adding her into them. I'm in hers too ALL the time now.

Is this bad? Can i stop? This is silly, but I don't want to do anything wrong even if it's a stupid thing like this.
Tell her she can either go out with you, who has a normal MSN name, or she can find another boyfriend.

How petty and clingy of her.
 

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Re: Re: Girlfriend insists that she is on my AIM/MSN away message..

Originally posted by aftershock
Tell her she can either go out with you, who has a normal MSN name, or she can find another boyfriend.

How petty and clingy of her.
Wtf?

Dude, why does this even bother you? You are right, it is pretty damn silly, to let things like this even cross your mind!
 

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i think its kinda cute. haha. i wouldnt do it. maybe do it randomly one day .. (the day she doesnt tell u to do it) then dont do it again for awhile etc.
 

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Put a different girls name on their.!!!
WHEN she gets mad tell her that Shanan is your grandma who is sick!!! ( and you have to be mad at her,:box: :cuss: ) <---getting mad ALWAYS works, what a good trick!!! You'll she how fast she'll come running back when you get mad at her!!!



EDIT:
Her: You put Jessica's name on their!!! Who is Jessica!!!:cuss:
You: Jessica is my fvcking grandmother who is in the hospital you selfish bitc h!!!! :cuss: :box:
Her: Im so sorry.:cry: :(
You: NOO, ITS NOT OK, DON'T TRY TO FIX IT.!!!!!:box:


SHE'LL WANT YOU BACK SO BAD THAT SHE'LL DO ANYTHING!!
 

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Originally posted by whyshy
Put a different girls name on their.!!!
WHEN she gets mad tell her that Shanan is your grandma who is sick!!! ( and you have to be mad at her,:box: :cuss: ) <---getting mad ALWAYS works, what a good trick!!! You'll she how fast she'll come running back when you get mad at her!!!
hahah, tats funny and clever.
 

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Originally posted by jenzos
ya but jessica doesnt seem very "grandmothery" hahaha
put sh1t like Ethel, and Patricia, grandma names!
 

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Yah good idea..:rolleyes:

I think I'll just not put her in all the time, only somtimes...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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