"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girlfriend In Same School?

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hey all

just wanted to know from your experience is going out with a girl who goes to the same school a good or bad idea?

theres this chick i really dig and we always talk and flirt when we are near each other, shes only in 1 of my classes but she also hangs around me during lunch breaks

now from your experiences is it a good or bad idea to go out with this chick?

i could just ask her out and we'd be together for like a week but then i dont want the IL to drop cause we would see each other 5 days a week...

your thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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steroidsrule

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lol hell yeah bro you can make it work if you try and use a couple avoiding techniques...make it interesting and fun.., experiment... shes only a girl so **** her feelings... tons of highschool relationships workout just make sure you maintain control in the relationship and dont let her ***** you out
 

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Yeh, at my school very few people go out with people in other schools. Just remember to stop by the drug store first.
 

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i think that its a good idea...that is, if you actually like her
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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S-lemond

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let me refrase that, theres nothing wrong with it.......good or bad idea...idk
 

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First of all, DON'T BREAK UP WITH HER AFTER YOU READ WHAT I'M ABOUT TO WRITE.

Good.

Ok, in-school relationships are terrible and are the worst relationships I've ever had. It starts so well, then people start talking, then rumors spread, then it's He-said-she-said, then it all explodes in your face. THEN, you have to see them everyday.

Ugh.

I limit myself to ONLY girls who i've never met before and who don't go to my school. Easy as that. You see them when you want to, and there isn't any cross-group rumor mill happening.

But as I said, don't go cold on it, because some of the best relationships I've seen have occurred at school. It's just not a great place to be having a relationship. Plus, if she rejects you (why would she? Peer pressure), then it becomes common knowledge and everything gets awkward.

Syn.
 

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hmm ok well im gonna ask her out and we'll see how we go :)

i reckon i can handle all the he-said-she-said dip****s out there and as for the rejection via peer pressure i doubt as ive hooked up with 2 of her close friends and shes fine with that as at that time we barely talked

so green light for now :D
 

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Number 1 rule of a DJ:
Dont give a f**k!
So why should you care about what people say or think??
 
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