"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girlfriend In Same School?

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hey all

just wanted to know from your experience is going out with a girl who goes to the same school a good or bad idea?

theres this chick i really dig and we always talk and flirt when we are near each other, shes only in 1 of my classes but she also hangs around me during lunch breaks

now from your experiences is it a good or bad idea to go out with this chick?

i could just ask her out and we'd be together for like a week but then i dont want the IL to drop cause we would see each other 5 days a week...

your thoughts?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol hell yeah bro you can make it work if you try and use a couple avoiding techniques...make it interesting and fun.., experiment... shes only a girl so **** her feelings... tons of highschool relationships workout just make sure you maintain control in the relationship and dont let her ***** you out
 

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Yeh, at my school very few people go out with people in other schools. Just remember to stop by the drug store first.
 

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i think that its a good idea...that is, if you actually like her
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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S-lemond

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let me refrase that, theres nothing wrong with it.......good or bad idea...idk
 

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First of all, DON'T BREAK UP WITH HER AFTER YOU READ WHAT I'M ABOUT TO WRITE.

Good.

Ok, in-school relationships are terrible and are the worst relationships I've ever had. It starts so well, then people start talking, then rumors spread, then it's He-said-she-said, then it all explodes in your face. THEN, you have to see them everyday.

Ugh.

I limit myself to ONLY girls who i've never met before and who don't go to my school. Easy as that. You see them when you want to, and there isn't any cross-group rumor mill happening.

But as I said, don't go cold on it, because some of the best relationships I've seen have occurred at school. It's just not a great place to be having a relationship. Plus, if she rejects you (why would she? Peer pressure), then it becomes common knowledge and everything gets awkward.

Syn.
 

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hmm ok well im gonna ask her out and we'll see how we go :)

i reckon i can handle all the he-said-she-said dip****s out there and as for the rejection via peer pressure i doubt as ive hooked up with 2 of her close friends and shes fine with that as at that time we barely talked

so green light for now :D
 

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Number 1 rule of a DJ:
Dont give a f**k!
So why should you care about what people say or think??
 
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