"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Girlfriend In Same School?

[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2005
Messages
93
Reaction score
0
Age
38
hey all

just wanted to know from your experience is going out with a girl who goes to the same school a good or bad idea?

theres this chick i really dig and we always talk and flirt when we are near each other, shes only in 1 of my classes but she also hangs around me during lunch breaks

now from your experiences is it a good or bad idea to go out with this chick?

i could just ask her out and we'd be together for like a week but then i dont want the IL to drop cause we would see each other 5 days a week...

your thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

steroidsrule

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2005
Messages
155
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
jersey baby
lol hell yeah bro you can make it work if you try and use a couple avoiding techniques...make it interesting and fun.., experiment... shes only a girl so **** her feelings... tons of highschool relationships workout just make sure you maintain control in the relationship and dont let her ***** you out
 

kegger

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 6, 2005
Messages
179
Reaction score
0
Yeh, at my school very few people go out with people in other schools. Just remember to stop by the drug store first.
 

S-lemond

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2005
Messages
536
Reaction score
0
Age
37
i think that its a good idea...that is, if you actually like her
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

S-lemond

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2005
Messages
536
Reaction score
0
Age
37
let me refrase that, theres nothing wrong with it.......good or bad idea...idk
 

SynapsyS

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 6, 2005
Messages
158
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
Perth, Australia
First of all, DON'T BREAK UP WITH HER AFTER YOU READ WHAT I'M ABOUT TO WRITE.

Good.

Ok, in-school relationships are terrible and are the worst relationships I've ever had. It starts so well, then people start talking, then rumors spread, then it's He-said-she-said, then it all explodes in your face. THEN, you have to see them everyday.

Ugh.

I limit myself to ONLY girls who i've never met before and who don't go to my school. Easy as that. You see them when you want to, and there isn't any cross-group rumor mill happening.

But as I said, don't go cold on it, because some of the best relationships I've seen have occurred at school. It's just not a great place to be having a relationship. Plus, if she rejects you (why would she? Peer pressure), then it becomes common knowledge and everything gets awkward.

Syn.
 

[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2005
Messages
93
Reaction score
0
Age
38
hmm ok well im gonna ask her out and we'll see how we go :)

i reckon i can handle all the he-said-she-said dip****s out there and as for the rejection via peer pressure i doubt as ive hooked up with 2 of her close friends and shes fine with that as at that time we barely talked

so green light for now :D
 

Taviii

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Messages
732
Reaction score
7
Location
Florida
Number 1 rule of a DJ:
Dont give a f**k!
So why should you care about what people say or think??
 
Top