Hi guys..thanx for the great site...i have a problem...everytime when i want to get intimate with my girlfriend she get mad and pushes or blocks my hand away.now last night i told her about sum male stuff..sexual...what happend to me and she just said "like she wants to hear that" but she was smiling and told her "i know u liked what u heard..can see it in ur eyes" and i smiled...and i told her its been a long time since we've ben intimate...and she said i just want to feel and touch her...which i replied im a man....but late that night when she was lying in bed i tried rubbing her stomach,for starters...lol...but she got mad for no reason....why?any help?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girlfriend gets angry,why??
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dannyegg4575
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Period?
diarrhea?
stop analyzing so much.
And why are you rubbing her stomach?
diarrhea?
stop analyzing so much.
And why are you rubbing her stomach?
Thanx for the advice.So what would u guys do in my situation?how would u guys spark that sexual intimacy?i tried to..rub stomach gently,move bit upward...come down a bit...i guess 2 steps forward one back.sumthing like that....she doesnt have her period
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
3countriesPlan
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weak man.. time for you to find ass somewhere else.
dannyegg4575
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Like i said, stop analyzing so much.
You didn't really put her in the mood to do a damn thing. You have to put her in the mood dude.
You didn't really put her in the mood to do a damn thing. You have to put her in the mood dude.
TheBaconator
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This is key here. If he did then theres a 99% chance that she has lost interest and is either detatching herself from him slowly or already banging someone else.shaunuk said:Jake, have you had sex with her before?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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A woman who loves you and and wants you sexually does not do that...Jakes21 said:Hi guys..thanx for the great site...i have a problem...everytime when i want to get intimate with my girlfriend she get mad and pushes or blocks my hand away.
DonGorgon
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Maybe not physically but it sounds like she is emotionally detached from you ..Jakes21 said:Thanx for all the great replies...how would i get her in the mood @dannyegg4575...the right way? we do kissing,holding hands,couple stuff...i know shes not seeing someone else.trust me guys.
dannyegg4575
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When was the last time you actually romance this woman?
Spontaneously surprise her with romance...
If she is rejecting you now, there has to be a reason. You don't need to do much dude, speak to her and see if something's up.
when was the last time you had sex? And how often do you actually get her "ready" for sex?
do you just pull down your pants and just go "LETS GO BABY????!"
seriously dude, she has to be ready for it.
Talk to her softly, not necessarily have sex with her. The point is to make her feel safe. let her know and feel you're not treating her like a piece of meat for GOD'S SAKE!
one night, talk to her, whisper in her ears, hey, good night baby... that's it.
romance.. you know the drill... all that jazz... i'm getting goosebumps...
Spontaneously surprise her with romance...
If she is rejecting you now, there has to be a reason. You don't need to do much dude, speak to her and see if something's up.
when was the last time you had sex? And how often do you actually get her "ready" for sex?
do you just pull down your pants and just go "LETS GO BABY????!"
seriously dude, she has to be ready for it.
Talk to her softly, not necessarily have sex with her. The point is to make her feel safe. let her know and feel you're not treating her like a piece of meat for GOD'S SAKE!
one night, talk to her, whisper in her ears, hey, good night baby... that's it.
romance.. you know the drill... all that jazz... i'm getting goosebumps...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I.A.F.Y.B.
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If you have been fvcking this girl and now all the sudden she doesnt want to? Then, I bet you she is fvcking some other guy. There are signs when a woman is cheating on you. If your not sure... Go to askmen.com and type in cheating girlfriend. Now, there may be an explanation for some of the signs. But, it is what it is.spax said:lol shes ****ing another guy
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Before doing any of that romancing stuff... i highly suggest that you find out how she feels when she's with you. She shouldn't be acting angry nor upset when you're close.
She may be resenting something, missing something... don't go wussy on her ok? Find out what it is...
She may be resenting something, missing something... don't go wussy on her ok? Find out what it is...
dannyegg4575
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You talk "man" but do you act "man" in front of her? There's a big difference.
Has she been showing you any sign of adoration? Any at all? Or is it YOU who are showing her all the attention? All to get into her panties?
When you touch her, does she show signs of holding back?
Interested girls don't hold back sex nor do they show disinterests. It means you f>cked up somewhere.
it's simple dude, if you want to show her romance... you don't have to do anything expensive. You just have to slowly add little things in her life to make her smile. have you been writing her notes? Have you been doing your share of the household choirs? have you been doing anything?!
Has she been showing you any sign of adoration? Any at all? Or is it YOU who are showing her all the attention? All to get into her panties?
When you touch her, does she show signs of holding back?
Interested girls don't hold back sex nor do they show disinterests. It means you f>cked up somewhere.
it's simple dude, if you want to show her romance... you don't have to do anything expensive. You just have to slowly add little things in her life to make her smile. have you been writing her notes? Have you been doing your share of the household choirs? have you been doing anything?!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.