Hi guys..thanx for the great site...i have a problem...everytime when i want to get intimate with my girlfriend she get mad and pushes or blocks my hand away.now last night i told her about sum male stuff..sexual...what happend to me and she just said "like she wants to hear that" but she was smiling and told her "i know u liked what u heard..can see it in ur eyes" and i smiled...and i told her its been a long time since we've ben intimate...and she said i just want to feel and touch her...which i replied im a man....but late that night when she was lying in bed i tried rubbing her stomach,for starters...lol...but she got mad for no reason....why?any help?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girlfriend gets angry,why??
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Period?
diarrhea?
stop analyzing so much.
And why are you rubbing her stomach?
diarrhea?
stop analyzing so much.
And why are you rubbing her stomach?
Thanx for the advice.So what would u guys do in my situation?how would u guys spark that sexual intimacy?i tried to..rub stomach gently,move bit upward...come down a bit...i guess 2 steps forward one back.sumthing like that....she doesnt have her period
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
3countriesPlan
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weak man.. time for you to find ass somewhere else.
dannyegg4575
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Like i said, stop analyzing so much.
You didn't really put her in the mood to do a damn thing. You have to put her in the mood dude.
You didn't really put her in the mood to do a damn thing. You have to put her in the mood dude.
TheBaconator
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This is key here. If he did then theres a 99% chance that she has lost interest and is either detatching herself from him slowly or already banging someone else.shaunuk said:Jake, have you had sex with her before?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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A woman who loves you and and wants you sexually does not do that...Jakes21 said:Hi guys..thanx for the great site...i have a problem...everytime when i want to get intimate with my girlfriend she get mad and pushes or blocks my hand away.
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Maybe not physically but it sounds like she is emotionally detached from you ..Jakes21 said:Thanx for all the great replies...how would i get her in the mood @dannyegg4575...the right way? we do kissing,holding hands,couple stuff...i know shes not seeing someone else.trust me guys.
dannyegg4575
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When was the last time you actually romance this woman?
Spontaneously surprise her with romance...
If she is rejecting you now, there has to be a reason. You don't need to do much dude, speak to her and see if something's up.
when was the last time you had sex? And how often do you actually get her "ready" for sex?
do you just pull down your pants and just go "LETS GO BABY????!"
seriously dude, she has to be ready for it.
Talk to her softly, not necessarily have sex with her. The point is to make her feel safe. let her know and feel you're not treating her like a piece of meat for GOD'S SAKE!
one night, talk to her, whisper in her ears, hey, good night baby... that's it.
romance.. you know the drill... all that jazz... i'm getting goosebumps...
Spontaneously surprise her with romance...
If she is rejecting you now, there has to be a reason. You don't need to do much dude, speak to her and see if something's up.
when was the last time you had sex? And how often do you actually get her "ready" for sex?
do you just pull down your pants and just go "LETS GO BABY????!"
seriously dude, she has to be ready for it.
Talk to her softly, not necessarily have sex with her. The point is to make her feel safe. let her know and feel you're not treating her like a piece of meat for GOD'S SAKE!
one night, talk to her, whisper in her ears, hey, good night baby... that's it.
romance.. you know the drill... all that jazz... i'm getting goosebumps...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I.A.F.Y.B.
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If you have been fvcking this girl and now all the sudden she doesnt want to? Then, I bet you she is fvcking some other guy. There are signs when a woman is cheating on you. If your not sure... Go to askmen.com and type in cheating girlfriend. Now, there may be an explanation for some of the signs. But, it is what it is.spax said:lol shes ****ing another guy
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Before doing any of that romancing stuff... i highly suggest that you find out how she feels when she's with you. She shouldn't be acting angry nor upset when you're close.
She may be resenting something, missing something... don't go wussy on her ok? Find out what it is...
She may be resenting something, missing something... don't go wussy on her ok? Find out what it is...
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You talk "man" but do you act "man" in front of her? There's a big difference.
Has she been showing you any sign of adoration? Any at all? Or is it YOU who are showing her all the attention? All to get into her panties?
When you touch her, does she show signs of holding back?
Interested girls don't hold back sex nor do they show disinterests. It means you f>cked up somewhere.
it's simple dude, if you want to show her romance... you don't have to do anything expensive. You just have to slowly add little things in her life to make her smile. have you been writing her notes? Have you been doing your share of the household choirs? have you been doing anything?!
Has she been showing you any sign of adoration? Any at all? Or is it YOU who are showing her all the attention? All to get into her panties?
When you touch her, does she show signs of holding back?
Interested girls don't hold back sex nor do they show disinterests. It means you f>cked up somewhere.
it's simple dude, if you want to show her romance... you don't have to do anything expensive. You just have to slowly add little things in her life to make her smile. have you been writing her notes? Have you been doing your share of the household choirs? have you been doing anything?!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.