Hi guys..thanx for the great site...i have a problem...everytime when i want to get intimate with my girlfriend she get mad and pushes or blocks my hand away.now last night i told her about sum male stuff..sexual...what happend to me and she just said "like she wants to hear that" but she was smiling and told her "i know u liked what u heard..can see it in ur eyes" and i smiled...and i told her its been a long time since we've ben intimate...and she said i just want to feel and touch her...which i replied im a man....but late that night when she was lying in bed i tried rubbing her stomach,for starters...lol...but she got mad for no reason....why?any help?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Girlfriend gets angry,why??
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Period?
diarrhea?
stop analyzing so much.
And why are you rubbing her stomach?
diarrhea?
stop analyzing so much.
And why are you rubbing her stomach?
Thanx for the advice.So what would u guys do in my situation?how would u guys spark that sexual intimacy?i tried to..rub stomach gently,move bit upward...come down a bit...i guess 2 steps forward one back.sumthing like that....she doesnt have her period
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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weak man.. time for you to find ass somewhere else.
dannyegg4575
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Like i said, stop analyzing so much.
You didn't really put her in the mood to do a damn thing. You have to put her in the mood dude.
You didn't really put her in the mood to do a damn thing. You have to put her in the mood dude.
TheBaconator
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This is key here. If he did then theres a 99% chance that she has lost interest and is either detatching herself from him slowly or already banging someone else.shaunuk said:Jake, have you had sex with her before?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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A woman who loves you and and wants you sexually does not do that...Jakes21 said:Hi guys..thanx for the great site...i have a problem...everytime when i want to get intimate with my girlfriend she get mad and pushes or blocks my hand away.
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Maybe not physically but it sounds like she is emotionally detached from you ..Jakes21 said:Thanx for all the great replies...how would i get her in the mood @dannyegg4575...the right way? we do kissing,holding hands,couple stuff...i know shes not seeing someone else.trust me guys.
dannyegg4575
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When was the last time you actually romance this woman?
Spontaneously surprise her with romance...
If she is rejecting you now, there has to be a reason. You don't need to do much dude, speak to her and see if something's up.
when was the last time you had sex? And how often do you actually get her "ready" for sex?
do you just pull down your pants and just go "LETS GO BABY????!"
seriously dude, she has to be ready for it.
Talk to her softly, not necessarily have sex with her. The point is to make her feel safe. let her know and feel you're not treating her like a piece of meat for GOD'S SAKE!
one night, talk to her, whisper in her ears, hey, good night baby... that's it.
romance.. you know the drill... all that jazz... i'm getting goosebumps...
Spontaneously surprise her with romance...
If she is rejecting you now, there has to be a reason. You don't need to do much dude, speak to her and see if something's up.
when was the last time you had sex? And how often do you actually get her "ready" for sex?
do you just pull down your pants and just go "LETS GO BABY????!"
seriously dude, she has to be ready for it.
Talk to her softly, not necessarily have sex with her. The point is to make her feel safe. let her know and feel you're not treating her like a piece of meat for GOD'S SAKE!
one night, talk to her, whisper in her ears, hey, good night baby... that's it.
romance.. you know the drill... all that jazz... i'm getting goosebumps...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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If you have been fvcking this girl and now all the sudden she doesnt want to? Then, I bet you she is fvcking some other guy. There are signs when a woman is cheating on you. If your not sure... Go to askmen.com and type in cheating girlfriend. Now, there may be an explanation for some of the signs. But, it is what it is.spax said:lol shes ****ing another guy
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Before doing any of that romancing stuff... i highly suggest that you find out how she feels when she's with you. She shouldn't be acting angry nor upset when you're close.
She may be resenting something, missing something... don't go wussy on her ok? Find out what it is...
She may be resenting something, missing something... don't go wussy on her ok? Find out what it is...
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You talk "man" but do you act "man" in front of her? There's a big difference.
Has she been showing you any sign of adoration? Any at all? Or is it YOU who are showing her all the attention? All to get into her panties?
When you touch her, does she show signs of holding back?
Interested girls don't hold back sex nor do they show disinterests. It means you f>cked up somewhere.
it's simple dude, if you want to show her romance... you don't have to do anything expensive. You just have to slowly add little things in her life to make her smile. have you been writing her notes? Have you been doing your share of the household choirs? have you been doing anything?!
Has she been showing you any sign of adoration? Any at all? Or is it YOU who are showing her all the attention? All to get into her panties?
When you touch her, does she show signs of holding back?
Interested girls don't hold back sex nor do they show disinterests. It means you f>cked up somewhere.
it's simple dude, if you want to show her romance... you don't have to do anything expensive. You just have to slowly add little things in her life to make her smile. have you been writing her notes? Have you been doing your share of the household choirs? have you been doing anything?!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.