"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girlfriend doesnt want to have Sex at the moment

AMDG

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HBK said:
how do i get the real truth out of her? Or is this just a rough patch in our relationship that we need to work through.
If you are willing to share the girl then go ahead. What more could be said ? :rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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st_99

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Sounds like a sh*ty situation you're in bud. I hate reading stuff like this, it sucks.

Anyway, hope everything works out for you with or without her..
 

jophil28

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Danger said:
Girl goes home for a week.
Girl sees man she used to have a thing for.
Girl and man drink together with friends.
Girl and man have sex later.
Girl wakes up, feels guilty but knows she cannot confess.
Girl goes home after holiday, has to check for and clear any STDs to eliminate proof.
Girl gets the green light.
Girl starts sleeping with bf again.
Guy continues to text her.

Note to all readers.....

When a person looks you squarely in the eye like that and denies cheating. They did cheat. They are using that "look in the eye" to try to cover it up.

Sorry to hear about this my friend.
I think that this is the most likely explanation, especially now that she has switched back and had a change of heart and wants to have sex again.

If my G/F went away for a week or two, and then refused sex without a credible explaation when she returned I would be HIGHLY suspicious.

I thought that absence made the heart grow fonder, not colder ?

Whenever I have been apart from my G/f at the time, we fukked like rabbits when we got back together.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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Banish the guilty wh0re.
 
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