"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girlfriend doesnt want to have Sex at the moment

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AMDG

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HBK said:
how do i get the real truth out of her? Or is this just a rough patch in our relationship that we need to work through.
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If you are willing to share the girl then go ahead. What more could be said ? :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sounds like a sh*ty situation you're in bud. I hate reading stuff like this, it sucks.

Anyway, hope everything works out for you with or without her..
 
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Danger said:
Girl goes home for a week.
Girl sees man she used to have a thing for.
Girl and man drink together with friends.
Girl and man have sex later.
Girl wakes up, feels guilty but knows she cannot confess.
Girl goes home after holiday, has to check for and clear any STDs to eliminate proof.
Girl gets the green light.
Girl starts sleeping with bf again.
Guy continues to text her.

Note to all readers.....

When a person looks you squarely in the eye like that and denies cheating. They did cheat. They are using that "look in the eye" to try to cover it up.

Sorry to hear about this my friend.
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I think that this is the most likely explanation, especially now that she has switched back and had a change of heart and wants to have sex again.

If my G/F went away for a week or two, and then refused sex without a credible explaation when she returned I would be HIGHLY suspicious.

I thought that absence made the heart grow fonder, not colder ?

Whenever I have been apart from my G/f at the time, we fukked like rabbits when we got back together.
 
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Banish the guilty wh0re.
 
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