"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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spax

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My girl game over. Was all good. We were making out in my bed lots. I got her bra off a couple times, I fingered her a bit, and we pretty much had make-out intervals. She played with my **** a bit with her hands, she did some more in the dark, so i pulled it out more and she rubbed it up and down.

Then I said "You wanna give me head?" and shes like "ummm", and then shes like "i....would..." and didnt finish the sentence, just kissed me more. Then im like "come on" and shes like "i dont know how..." and just focused on kissing me lots.


I was so ****ing pissed. My ego was crushed. :cuss:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SinJester

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Dude settle the fck down your overeacting. Whys it a big deal? It's last minute resistance, you just didn't deal with it. She would have a reason, there are some girls that just don't give head. How would you like to suck a ****?
 

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How old is she?

If she honestly doesn't know how, maybe she's uneasy about it. I don't really see why your ego is crushed, it's not like she went near it and then said "ew I'm not sucking that tiny thing, it stinks!"

Try again some other time, assure her that its okay if she doesn't know how, you'll let her go at her own pace and teach her what you like.
 

KontrollerX

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If she's young she likely doesn't know.

Chill the fvck out and focus on having her practice at it with a peeled banana until she becomes a pro and is ready for the real thing.

You could even of asked her to just lick it all over if she didn't know what to do.

For Christ sakes learn to improvise in these situations people!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gmillar

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Look at it from her point of view. Would you want a penis in your mouth? Not saying she shouldn't give you head, but if she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to, there's no need to take it personally.
 

Axcell

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Haha, you shouldn't have asked her, rather flow with it.
Move her head towards it, if she starts to push back, than it's a problem. The trick is to guide her, she's young, and she probably doesn't know how to do it. As long as she is warmed up enough, she really loves you, and you guide her properly, there should be no objection.
 
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spax said:
My girl game over. Was all good. We were making out in my bed lots. I got her bra off a couple times, I fingered her a bit, and we pretty much had make-out intervals. She played with my **** a bit with her hands, she did some more in the dark, so i pulled it out more and she rubbed it up and down.

Then I said "You wanna give me head?" and shes like "ummm", and then shes like "i....would..." and didnt finish the sentence, just kissed me more. Then im like "come on" and shes like "i dont know how..." and just focused on kissing me lots.


I was so ****ing pissed. My ego was crushed. :cuss:
Don't feel too bad. Last week I was making out with a girl in my bed and I said "you wanna suck it a little?" and she said "do you have a condom?"

It caught me TOTALLY off guard I didn't know what to say. I was like

"a condom for that? don't worry baby i'm clean"

So I just dropped it got the condom and handled my business but no head.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sex and such is great,but people too often exaggerate it and associate it with status.Have sex because you like sex,not cause it'll make you cool or boost your ego.That's afc thinking.Stay out of that territory.
 

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^ true

I just have one question... Why did you get her bra off a couple times? Did she keep putting it back on? wtf?
 

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DonAlan456 said:
whyd u ask her?
tell her
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you fuked up right there
she would , she only gave a lil resistance, should have said "well try, and see how you do"

learn to take control of the situation,

so many times a id be kissing a girl, i pull my **** out and tell them to suck it. they all say the same **** "i dont usually suck dik," "well suck mine then" "i dunno"
"just do it"

then they suck it and such a pro at it too. they dont like it but they will do it. lets put it that way
 

young_gun

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She's probably just nervous or self-conscious that you won't like it if she did it or something. Maybe she's never done it before.

Sh!t, I studied the ins and outs of a vajj on the internet before I ever ate one or had sex. Haha
 

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your c0ck stinks
how about if I stick my c0ck up your mouth, the urine tastes pretty sweet cause I had some apple juice today too
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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