"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girlfriend denied me *******

spax

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My girl game over. Was all good. We were making out in my bed lots. I got her bra off a couple times, I fingered her a bit, and we pretty much had make-out intervals. She played with my **** a bit with her hands, she did some more in the dark, so i pulled it out more and she rubbed it up and down.

Then I said "You wanna give me head?" and shes like "ummm", and then shes like "i....would..." and didnt finish the sentence, just kissed me more. Then im like "come on" and shes like "i dont know how..." and just focused on kissing me lots.


I was so ****ing pissed. My ego was crushed. :cuss:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SinJester

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Dude settle the fck down your overeacting. Whys it a big deal? It's last minute resistance, you just didn't deal with it. She would have a reason, there are some girls that just don't give head. How would you like to suck a ****?
 

SmoothTalker

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How old is she?

If she honestly doesn't know how, maybe she's uneasy about it. I don't really see why your ego is crushed, it's not like she went near it and then said "ew I'm not sucking that tiny thing, it stinks!"

Try again some other time, assure her that its okay if she doesn't know how, you'll let her go at her own pace and teach her what you like.
 

KontrollerX

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If she's young she likely doesn't know.

Chill the fvck out and focus on having her practice at it with a peeled banana until she becomes a pro and is ready for the real thing.

You could even of asked her to just lick it all over if she didn't know what to do.

For Christ sakes learn to improvise in these situations people!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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gmillar

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Look at it from her point of view. Would you want a penis in your mouth? Not saying she shouldn't give you head, but if she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to, there's no need to take it personally.
 

Axcell

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Haha, you shouldn't have asked her, rather flow with it.
Move her head towards it, if she starts to push back, than it's a problem. The trick is to guide her, she's young, and she probably doesn't know how to do it. As long as she is warmed up enough, she really loves you, and you guide her properly, there should be no objection.
 
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spax said:
My girl game over. Was all good. We were making out in my bed lots. I got her bra off a couple times, I fingered her a bit, and we pretty much had make-out intervals. She played with my **** a bit with her hands, she did some more in the dark, so i pulled it out more and she rubbed it up and down.

Then I said "You wanna give me head?" and shes like "ummm", and then shes like "i....would..." and didnt finish the sentence, just kissed me more. Then im like "come on" and shes like "i dont know how..." and just focused on kissing me lots.


I was so ****ing pissed. My ego was crushed. :cuss:
Don't feel too bad. Last week I was making out with a girl in my bed and I said "you wanna suck it a little?" and she said "do you have a condom?"

It caught me TOTALLY off guard I didn't know what to say. I was like

"a condom for that? don't worry baby i'm clean"

So I just dropped it got the condom and handled my business but no head.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sex and such is great,but people too often exaggerate it and associate it with status.Have sex because you like sex,not cause it'll make you cool or boost your ego.That's afc thinking.Stay out of that territory.
 

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^ true

I just have one question... Why did you get her bra off a couple times? Did she keep putting it back on? wtf?
 

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DonAlan456 said:
whyd u ask her?
tell her
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you fuked up right there
she would , she only gave a lil resistance, should have said "well try, and see how you do"

learn to take control of the situation,

so many times a id be kissing a girl, i pull my **** out and tell them to suck it. they all say the same **** "i dont usually suck dik," "well suck mine then" "i dunno"
"just do it"

then they suck it and such a pro at it too. they dont like it but they will do it. lets put it that way
 

young_gun

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She's probably just nervous or self-conscious that you won't like it if she did it or something. Maybe she's never done it before.

Sh!t, I studied the ins and outs of a vajj on the internet before I ever ate one or had sex. Haha
 

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your c0ck stinks
how about if I stick my c0ck up your mouth, the urine tastes pretty sweet cause I had some apple juice today too
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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