DoctorLW said:
Seriously guys, I'm at a loss for words! I'm definitely might be treading thin ice here. I'm trying to think of some subtle joke but everything I come up with is just too harsh.
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Note: This is a serious question, I would like a serious answer.
There should have been an understanding between you two from the beginning that any major change in personal appearance will necessarily affect the other person, therefore it should be discussed beforehand. The fact that she went ahead and cut it without discussing it with you speaks volumes.
So does the fact that you are afraid of her. A relationship should never be based upon the fear of expressing your honest opinion about something like this.
Did you notice the response a few posts up from one of the women on this forum? She starts with "Why bother?"
Because it's important to you...That's why!
Then she indicates that she perceives expressing your dislike for the new haircut as "insulting her" (and, it will damage her psyche so severely that she will never forgive you).
Give me a break! What kind of world do we live in where a man has to be afraid to express his preference for his woman's appearance?
Be honest. Tell her how you truly feel. You can then lay down the law that drastic changes in appearance should be discussed as a matter of respect for each other.