"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girlfriend complimented a buddy.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You should have responded with something like :
"they are adorable" in your worst Antonio Banderas accent.
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
Maybe she's trying to get your attention. Or maybe she's subtly letting you know that you better appreciate what you have cause there are other guys out there. You know your girl better than me so you can best answer this. Go with your gut. If you are seeing and feeling stuff going on then you are not imagining it.
Personally I never confront girls when they do things on purpose to get my attention. I either ignore it or do the same thing back to them. Next time one of her friends is around give her a compliment. Ask her if she's been hitting the gym lately cause her body is looking tight............... and see what your girl does. LOL fukk it, life is a game, might as well have some fun.
sexysuave
Senior Don Juan
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
Come on bro do it....................... just think, it'll be fun to see her reaction. Then come back and tell us. What's the worse that could happen............... at least you'll have a funny story.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
God DAMN you guys analyzie **** like women sometimes.. that's what women do.
This is my golden rule of women...
IF YOUR WOMAN WANTS TO **** SOMEONE ELSE, SHE WILL DO IT, REGARDLESS OF THE SITUTATION SHE IS IN, AND IF SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU TO FIND OUT, YOU WON'T
And that's the truth.. so the **** what she complimented the guy on his eyes? It's not like she said "oh my gosh your c.ck looks so big and fat"
You know how many times my friends girls have complimented me on my house or car or clothes I have on? Does that secretly mean they want to **** me...
eek: damn.. they just might, but nevertheless)My EX or girls I talk to compliment my friends all the time... what's the harm in that? If she wants to **** em' go ahead... get a camera we can throw a party, tag team style
All these guys have luguna beach syndrome.. all, well not all but alot of guys sound like women with nutts, babbling like women at a hair salon "omg, my GF complimented my friends EYES.. OMG..she is soo going to suck him off"
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Okay.. so what.. let's say she does like him and is ****ing him RIGHT now?
What do you do?
Well I know what I would do and it wouldn't be cry over her.. if a girl ever ****ed my friend while she is with me, she is going ot have to do both of us if not all three of us at the same time, no questions asks, no if ands or buts.. you know she is a slut, treat her like she is screaming to be treated instead of going into ***** mode
I guess, what I am trying to say is.. the problem, even though it's not but if it was, is not that she might like your guy friend..
The problem is that, even if she did like your guy friend (which she doesn't).. WTF do you have to be MAD or SAD for?Set her out and replace her, or better yet, set her out and keep her on the side while you **** other women
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
And what makes you think she don't WANT you? Maybe she WOULDN'T out of respect for your girlfriend but she she does want to and under extreme circumstances she probably would.
GuitarPlayer
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Thank you. My thoughts exactly. Now, it might be different if analyzing women would actually get us somewhere, but I think we all know better than that!
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
Dude you have 2154 posts........................ you are here for a reason......... so don't knock a guy who's trying to figure out why his girl is complimenting other guys. And women are complex creatures... you of all people should know this. I doubt she is complimenting his friend just for the sake of complimenting him. I'm sure there is a reason why she is doing it right in front of his face.
Ease up a bit on the judgements. I was fair with you in your post when you spent 1,000 dollars in a strip club on a girl who didn't give you no play. So show the same courtesy to our fellow DJ here.
A close friend of mine is living with a girl he's been with for about a year 1/2 to 2 years. Ever since I first met her I get subtle flirty vibes from her (some more obvious then others). Once we were at a restaurant and she rubs my forearm in front of him. Of course he looks at her like "wtf was that?" and she's all like "he has no hair on his arms" all innocently.
I think she does this partially because she has some interest in me and partially to make him jealous. She may even be doing it to see if she can get me to take the bait, I really don't know what her intentions are.
I'd ignore it, but at the same time I wouldn't hesitate to be more vocal about things I find attractive in other women. Just don't make it seem obvious that you're doing it purposefully, maybe she'll get a clue and stop doing it so much.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.