"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girlfriend cheated: Emotionally I am done with her but should I stay just for the sex

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lil Magic

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Personally, if it was me, i'd just drop her on spot. Think about it, not only is she a habitual liar and cheater, Do you want to be known as the guy who's girl always cheat on you? Or when your children as where she is at night to tuck them in... Oh yea, she went to the movies with "friends." Yea right, probably MAKING a movie with friends.
 

KingBeef

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The girl is CRAP, YET YOU IGNORED THE WARNING SIGNS IN THE BEGINNING.... GET RID OF HER. USE THIS AS A LESSON THAT YOU HAVE TO JUDGE WOMEN BY THERE ACTIONS....By the way, you need to spin more plates just to remind yourself that you're a worthy man with options....

NO DECENT MAN WOULD USE HER AS AN OPTION IF HE KNEW WHAT HIS TRUE WORTH WAS
 

silenthill

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Wow, I had a pretty good time last night. Went to the club and saw 3 hot chicks at the end of the bar. One was a smoking hot 9. The others a 7 and 8. I walked over and said "Hey guys I really need your help" they were like "sure what is it". Me: You have to stop me from calling or texting my ex girlfriend that I just broke up with 2 days ago.

Bam! Immediately get into good conversation. They were all like "forget her, she's not worth it, bla bla bla. Oh one girl cheated on her bf in a relationship and swore she would never do it again. Well it's not hard to figure out what happened lol.

Major kino going on. Touching legs totally in contact. Shoulder and hand touching. Picked up one of the girls number (not going to call it, but why not). I was like "I've already got 5 (her name) in my phone, you've got to be more specific. Not to bad for the first set attempt.
 

horaholic

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Good for you, keep it up, and dont ever get suckerplayed again. My personal experience with ex-sex is if you are going to do it, wait for MANY months, to make sure your feelings are done. Even then, only do it ONCE, then no contact for a few more months, or you will get sucked back in. I have ex's that I can hook up with any time, providing we're both single. We get along WAY better nowadays. Follow the several months in between rule, and it's ok.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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