"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girlfriend cheated: Emotionally I am done with her but should I stay just for the sex

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lil Magic

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Personally, if it was me, i'd just drop her on spot. Think about it, not only is she a habitual liar and cheater, Do you want to be known as the guy who's girl always cheat on you? Or when your children as where she is at night to tuck them in... Oh yea, she went to the movies with "friends." Yea right, probably MAKING a movie with friends.
 
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The girl is CRAP, YET YOU IGNORED THE WARNING SIGNS IN THE BEGINNING.... GET RID OF HER. USE THIS AS A LESSON THAT YOU HAVE TO JUDGE WOMEN BY THERE ACTIONS....By the way, you need to spin more plates just to remind yourself that you're a worthy man with options....

NO DECENT MAN WOULD USE HER AS AN OPTION IF HE KNEW WHAT HIS TRUE WORTH WAS
 
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Wow, I had a pretty good time last night. Went to the club and saw 3 hot chicks at the end of the bar. One was a smoking hot 9. The others a 7 and 8. I walked over and said "Hey guys I really need your help" they were like "sure what is it". Me: You have to stop me from calling or texting my ex girlfriend that I just broke up with 2 days ago.

Bam! Immediately get into good conversation. They were all like "forget her, she's not worth it, bla bla bla. Oh one girl cheated on her bf in a relationship and swore she would never do it again. Well it's not hard to figure out what happened lol.

Major kino going on. Touching legs totally in contact. Shoulder and hand touching. Picked up one of the girls number (not going to call it, but why not). I was like "I've already got 5 (her name) in my phone, you've got to be more specific. Not to bad for the first set attempt.
 
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Good for you, keep it up, and dont ever get suckerplayed again. My personal experience with ex-sex is if you are going to do it, wait for MANY months, to make sure your feelings are done. Even then, only do it ONCE, then no contact for a few more months, or you will get sucked back in. I have ex's that I can hook up with any time, providing we're both single. We get along WAY better nowadays. Follow the several months in between rule, and it's ok.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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