"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girlfriend cheated: Emotionally I am done with her but should I stay just for the sex

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lil Magic

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Personally, if it was me, i'd just drop her on spot. Think about it, not only is she a habitual liar and cheater, Do you want to be known as the guy who's girl always cheat on you? Or when your children as where she is at night to tuck them in... Oh yea, she went to the movies with "friends." Yea right, probably MAKING a movie with friends.
 

KingBeef

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The girl is CRAP, YET YOU IGNORED THE WARNING SIGNS IN THE BEGINNING.... GET RID OF HER. USE THIS AS A LESSON THAT YOU HAVE TO JUDGE WOMEN BY THERE ACTIONS....By the way, you need to spin more plates just to remind yourself that you're a worthy man with options....

NO DECENT MAN WOULD USE HER AS AN OPTION IF HE KNEW WHAT HIS TRUE WORTH WAS
 

silenthill

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Wow, I had a pretty good time last night. Went to the club and saw 3 hot chicks at the end of the bar. One was a smoking hot 9. The others a 7 and 8. I walked over and said "Hey guys I really need your help" they were like "sure what is it". Me: You have to stop me from calling or texting my ex girlfriend that I just broke up with 2 days ago.

Bam! Immediately get into good conversation. They were all like "forget her, she's not worth it, bla bla bla. Oh one girl cheated on her bf in a relationship and swore she would never do it again. Well it's not hard to figure out what happened lol.

Major kino going on. Touching legs totally in contact. Shoulder and hand touching. Picked up one of the girls number (not going to call it, but why not). I was like "I've already got 5 (her name) in my phone, you've got to be more specific. Not to bad for the first set attempt.
 

horaholic

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Good for you, keep it up, and dont ever get suckerplayed again. My personal experience with ex-sex is if you are going to do it, wait for MANY months, to make sure your feelings are done. Even then, only do it ONCE, then no contact for a few more months, or you will get sucked back in. I have ex's that I can hook up with any time, providing we're both single. We get along WAY better nowadays. Follow the several months in between rule, and it's ok.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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