whatsup guys. iv been reading the bible for awhile now and i got most of this stuff down. it doesnt hurt that im good looking and muscular lol. so anyway i was with a fine ass girl in someones bedroom and i was fingering her and she was jerking me off. but she refused to give me head. wtf? i didnt act like it was a big deal but damn thats lame. how do you guys get a girl to go down on you? (i tried twice, and like guided her head down but no go. i had met the girl like 30 min beforehand so maybe thats a reason, but still not a good one)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
girl wont give me head
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She_feelin_Me
Don Juan
Would you go down on her after meeting her for 30mins?
All women are different and maybe thats not her thing...
All women are different and maybe thats not her thing...
basically you were being an arse. sorry to say it.
NEVER touch the back of a girls head in that situation. just dont.. 99% of women hate it and it makes getting head a lot less likly. imagine if women were all bigger and stronger than us and you were fingering a girl and she just grabbed your head and pushed it toward her crotch.. not exactly a turn on is it.
you'd only known her 30 mins, her not going down on you is hardly unreasonable! be patient mate!
good luck.
NEVER touch the back of a girls head in that situation. just dont.. 99% of women hate it and it makes getting head a lot less likly. imagine if women were all bigger and stronger than us and you were fingering a girl and she just grabbed your head and pushed it toward her crotch.. not exactly a turn on is it.
you'd only known her 30 mins, her not going down on you is hardly unreasonable! be patient mate!
good luck.
DatMackinBoi
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Lol @ grabbing her head...
I think every girl gives head.. they just need to be seduced to do it. Play her emotions.
I think every girl gives head.. they just need to be seduced to do it. Play her emotions.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
some girls don't like it and if they have high enough self-esteem won't do it.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maybe she wasn't turned on enough to go the extra step further. You should have gone down on her (not just fingering), and then tried again.
If she still refused after that, you should have got up and left.
If she still refused after that, you should have got up and left.
robinincarolina
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Self esteem has nothing to do with giving head. Who said that? A confident woman is comfortable and may actually enjoy giving head. 99% of the women do not hate it, maybe 99% of the men don't know how to go about it. But after knowing someone for 30 minutes, I think that is pretty normal, and pushing her head down tells a woman one thing, you are in it for your pleasure and not for hers. That is lame.