whatsup guys. iv been reading the bible for awhile now and i got most of this stuff down. it doesnt hurt that im good looking and muscular lol. so anyway i was with a fine ass girl in someones bedroom and i was fingering her and she was jerking me off. but she refused to give me head. wtf? i didnt act like it was a big deal but damn thats lame. how do you guys get a girl to go down on you? (i tried twice, and like guided her head down but no go. i had met the girl like 30 min beforehand so maybe thats a reason, but still not a good one)
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
girl wont give me head
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She_feelin_Me
Don Juan
Would you go down on her after meeting her for 30mins?
All women are different and maybe thats not her thing...
All women are different and maybe thats not her thing...
basically you were being an arse. sorry to say it.
NEVER touch the back of a girls head in that situation. just dont.. 99% of women hate it and it makes getting head a lot less likly. imagine if women were all bigger and stronger than us and you were fingering a girl and she just grabbed your head and pushed it toward her crotch.. not exactly a turn on is it.
you'd only known her 30 mins, her not going down on you is hardly unreasonable! be patient mate!
good luck.
NEVER touch the back of a girls head in that situation. just dont.. 99% of women hate it and it makes getting head a lot less likly. imagine if women were all bigger and stronger than us and you were fingering a girl and she just grabbed your head and pushed it toward her crotch.. not exactly a turn on is it.
you'd only known her 30 mins, her not going down on you is hardly unreasonable! be patient mate!
good luck.
DatMackinBoi
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Lol @ grabbing her head...
I think every girl gives head.. they just need to be seduced to do it. Play her emotions.
I think every girl gives head.. they just need to be seduced to do it. Play her emotions.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
some girls don't like it and if they have high enough self-esteem won't do it.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maybe she wasn't turned on enough to go the extra step further. You should have gone down on her (not just fingering), and then tried again.
If she still refused after that, you should have got up and left.
If she still refused after that, you should have got up and left.
robinincarolina
Banned
Self esteem has nothing to do with giving head. Who said that? A confident woman is comfortable and may actually enjoy giving head. 99% of the women do not hate it, maybe 99% of the men don't know how to go about it. But after knowing someone for 30 minutes, I think that is pretty normal, and pushing her head down tells a woman one thing, you are in it for your pleasure and not for hers. That is lame.