"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl With No Father

gatarado

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What do you guys have to say about girls who grew up without a father figure. I was previously in an LTR with a girl who was tomboyish and hung around all guys because she got along with them better than girls. The relationship didnt appeal to me as much because she was too much of a guy. Could this be because she didnt have a father?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It could be or it could not be. Why would you care anyway?

Do you mean that in the future you will stay away from girls that don't have a father cuz they'd be the same as her? Every person is different. Some girls that do have a father are tomboyish. Some girls that don't are not. No point in categorizing..
 

Caveman

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Don't wonder. When you meet a nice girl and you find out she has no father you well let her go huh?
If she's a tomboy you will see that soon enough. Don't worry about it. Besides, imo tomboys are easier to get into the sack :D
 

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what do you think of tomboys in an LTR? or do i need a girlly girl for that. which do you yhtink will be better in the long run
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Most, not all girls without a real father figure in their life can be pretty ****ed up in the head. They are the most likely to cheat on you, and I am dead serious. The sad thing is, you should see it coming.

Most are looking for male attention they didn't recieve from childhood.

My Ex is a classic example, which is the reason she is my ex. I pitty the guy she is with now.
 

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Originally posted by gatarado
Could this be because she didnt have a father?
Jesus! Literally.
 

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From what I've read when either gender doesn't have a father figgure early in life it can **** them up later. It's interesting but apparently the lack of a father is far more important to an individual's development than the lack of a mother.

Anyhow, from what I remember girls who had no daddies start having sex earlier and get pregenant at earlier ages and usually without the father sticking around. So yeah, they're usually ****ed up.
 
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