"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl With No Father

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What do you guys have to say about girls who grew up without a father figure. I was previously in an LTR with a girl who was tomboyish and hung around all guys because she got along with them better than girls. The relationship didnt appeal to me as much because she was too much of a guy. Could this be because she didnt have a father?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It could be or it could not be. Why would you care anyway?

Do you mean that in the future you will stay away from girls that don't have a father cuz they'd be the same as her? Every person is different. Some girls that do have a father are tomboyish. Some girls that don't are not. No point in categorizing..
 

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Don't wonder. When you meet a nice girl and you find out she has no father you well let her go huh?
If she's a tomboy you will see that soon enough. Don't worry about it. Besides, imo tomboys are easier to get into the sack :D
 

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what do you think of tomboys in an LTR? or do i need a girlly girl for that. which do you yhtink will be better in the long run
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Most, not all girls without a real father figure in their life can be pretty ****ed up in the head. They are the most likely to cheat on you, and I am dead serious. The sad thing is, you should see it coming.

Most are looking for male attention they didn't recieve from childhood.

My Ex is a classic example, which is the reason she is my ex. I pitty the guy she is with now.
 

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Originally posted by gatarado
Could this be because she didnt have a father?
Jesus! Literally.
 

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From what I've read when either gender doesn't have a father figgure early in life it can **** them up later. It's interesting but apparently the lack of a father is far more important to an individual's development than the lack of a mother.

Anyhow, from what I remember girls who had no daddies start having sex earlier and get pregenant at earlier ages and usually without the father sticking around. So yeah, they're usually ****ed up.
 
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