"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl With No Father

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What do you guys have to say about girls who grew up without a father figure. I was previously in an LTR with a girl who was tomboyish and hung around all guys because she got along with them better than girls. The relationship didnt appeal to me as much because she was too much of a guy. Could this be because she didnt have a father?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It could be or it could not be. Why would you care anyway?

Do you mean that in the future you will stay away from girls that don't have a father cuz they'd be the same as her? Every person is different. Some girls that do have a father are tomboyish. Some girls that don't are not. No point in categorizing..
 

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Don't wonder. When you meet a nice girl and you find out she has no father you well let her go huh?
If she's a tomboy you will see that soon enough. Don't worry about it. Besides, imo tomboys are easier to get into the sack :D
 

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what do you think of tomboys in an LTR? or do i need a girlly girl for that. which do you yhtink will be better in the long run
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Most, not all girls without a real father figure in their life can be pretty ****ed up in the head. They are the most likely to cheat on you, and I am dead serious. The sad thing is, you should see it coming.

Most are looking for male attention they didn't recieve from childhood.

My Ex is a classic example, which is the reason she is my ex. I pitty the guy she is with now.
 

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Originally posted by gatarado
Could this be because she didnt have a father?
Jesus! Literally.
 

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From what I've read when either gender doesn't have a father figgure early in life it can **** them up later. It's interesting but apparently the lack of a father is far more important to an individual's development than the lack of a mother.

Anyhow, from what I remember girls who had no daddies start having sex earlier and get pregenant at earlier ages and usually without the father sticking around. So yeah, they're usually ****ed up.
 
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