"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girl with kid, not sure how to handle this

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Saturday night I was out with some friends. This one chick that I'm interested in got completely wasted and had to be driven home by some of her friends. Two of her friends were left behind with no way home, so rather than them take a cab I offered to drive them home. I had to take one of my friends home anyway, and he was interested in the one chick.

I put forth ZERO effort, but ended up fvcking the other girl. There was really no way out of it, but I'm glad I did since she seems to be a cool girl.

Problem is she has a kid. That doesn't bother me, but I can't help but feel like she's mainly interested in me BECAUSE that doesn't bother me.

She called me the next morning after I got home from her house and wanted me to come back over that night, but I had to work late and just called her. We talked for like an hour (I really didn't know much about her before, so...), and she wanted me to call her back tonight. I told her it would be better if she was the one to call me.

She also seems to be concerned with this other girl. She knows I like her and kept asking me if I still did, and she seemed worried about her finding out about us.

So like, assuming she calls me back tonight, how exactly should I proceed? I mean, things never seem to work out with that other chick, and this one seems to really be into me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Oh, and she kept complimenting me and grabbing my ass at the bar. She said I was the first person since she broke up with the kids father 5 months ago that she felt comfortable enough to have sex with.
 
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Anybody? I don't have any experience with girls with kids.

She called me tonight, and we talked for an hour again. She wanted me to come over, but I told her I was too busy. Told her to call me friday, then called her back to tell her I could maybe come over tomorrow.
 
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