"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girl with kid, not sure how to handle this

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Saturday night I was out with some friends. This one chick that I'm interested in got completely wasted and had to be driven home by some of her friends. Two of her friends were left behind with no way home, so rather than them take a cab I offered to drive them home. I had to take one of my friends home anyway, and he was interested in the one chick.

I put forth ZERO effort, but ended up fvcking the other girl. There was really no way out of it, but I'm glad I did since she seems to be a cool girl.

Problem is she has a kid. That doesn't bother me, but I can't help but feel like she's mainly interested in me BECAUSE that doesn't bother me.

She called me the next morning after I got home from her house and wanted me to come back over that night, but I had to work late and just called her. We talked for like an hour (I really didn't know much about her before, so...), and she wanted me to call her back tonight. I told her it would be better if she was the one to call me.

She also seems to be concerned with this other girl. She knows I like her and kept asking me if I still did, and she seemed worried about her finding out about us.

So like, assuming she calls me back tonight, how exactly should I proceed? I mean, things never seem to work out with that other chick, and this one seems to really be into me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh, and she kept complimenting me and grabbing my ass at the bar. She said I was the first person since she broke up with the kids father 5 months ago that she felt comfortable enough to have sex with.
 
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Anybody? I don't have any experience with girls with kids.

She called me tonight, and we talked for an hour again. She wanted me to come over, but I told her I was too busy. Told her to call me friday, then called her back to tell her I could maybe come over tomorrow.
 
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