Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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girl with kid, not sure how to handle this

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Saturday night I was out with some friends. This one chick that I'm interested in got completely wasted and had to be driven home by some of her friends. Two of her friends were left behind with no way home, so rather than them take a cab I offered to drive them home. I had to take one of my friends home anyway, and he was interested in the one chick.

I put forth ZERO effort, but ended up fvcking the other girl. There was really no way out of it, but I'm glad I did since she seems to be a cool girl.

Problem is she has a kid. That doesn't bother me, but I can't help but feel like she's mainly interested in me BECAUSE that doesn't bother me.

She called me the next morning after I got home from her house and wanted me to come back over that night, but I had to work late and just called her. We talked for like an hour (I really didn't know much about her before, so...), and she wanted me to call her back tonight. I told her it would be better if she was the one to call me.

She also seems to be concerned with this other girl. She knows I like her and kept asking me if I still did, and she seemed worried about her finding out about us.

So like, assuming she calls me back tonight, how exactly should I proceed? I mean, things never seem to work out with that other chick, and this one seems to really be into me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Oh, and she kept complimenting me and grabbing my ass at the bar. She said I was the first person since she broke up with the kids father 5 months ago that she felt comfortable enough to have sex with.
 

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Anybody? I don't have any experience with girls with kids.

She called me tonight, and we talked for an hour again. She wanted me to come over, but I told her I was too busy. Told her to call me friday, then called her back to tell her I could maybe come over tomorrow.
 
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