"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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xander

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For the last few months there has been a girl that i work with. usually i see her once or twice a week. Right from the start we hit it off always playing around with each other flirting, we always randomly hug each other. She tells me how we have so much in common and that I'm cute and awesome. She also is a trainer at the gym on the weekend and told me to go and that she will give me a free lesson.My female friend thinks she only likes me as a friend because she does have a bf. but i have decided that the next time we work together i will ask her to hang out outside of work and see what her response is..So girls with bf's what are the chances of winning them over or is it a waste of time even trying.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The barrier here isn't the fact that she has a BF.

The barrier is the friendzone.

Let me be clear here.. you are in the friendzone. Hugging and being called cute is exactly what you would find if you were to look up a dictionary definition of friendzone (let's be hypothetical here).
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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xander said:
So girls with bf's what are the chances of winning them over or is it a waste of time even trying.
Depends what you want. Just sex? Sure try for it.

You want her to be a gf? Well if she just left her bf for you, she will leave you for someone else.

So it is a catch 22 if you're looking for a relationship.
 
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