For the last few months there has been a girl that i work with. usually i see her once or twice a week. Right from the start we hit it off always playing around with each other flirting, we always randomly hug each other. She tells me how we have so much in common and that I'm cute and awesome. She also is a trainer at the gym on the weekend and told me to go and that she will give me a free lesson.My female friend thinks she only likes me as a friend because she does have a bf. but i have decided that the next time we work together i will ask her to hang out outside of work and see what her response is..So girls with bf's what are the chances of winning them over or is it a waste of time even trying.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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