“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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xander

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For the last few months there has been a girl that i work with. usually i see her once or twice a week. Right from the start we hit it off always playing around with each other flirting, we always randomly hug each other. She tells me how we have so much in common and that I'm cute and awesome. She also is a trainer at the gym on the weekend and told me to go and that she will give me a free lesson.My female friend thinks she only likes me as a friend because she does have a bf. but i have decided that the next time we work together i will ask her to hang out outside of work and see what her response is..So girls with bf's what are the chances of winning them over or is it a waste of time even trying.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The barrier here isn't the fact that she has a BF.

The barrier is the friendzone.

Let me be clear here.. you are in the friendzone. Hugging and being called cute is exactly what you would find if you were to look up a dictionary definition of friendzone (let's be hypothetical here).
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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xander said:
So girls with bf's what are the chances of winning them over or is it a waste of time even trying.
Depends what you want. Just sex? Sure try for it.

You want her to be a gf? Well if she just left her bf for you, she will leave you for someone else.

So it is a catch 22 if you're looking for a relationship.
 
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