WHat do I do? She just keeps texting me from outta nowhere. Should I try and make moves on her? Or make it a friendly relationship? She's only been with he bf for maybe 2 months now if that helps any.. I've been posting too much =/ I need to get out!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girl with bf who keeps texting me...?
- Thread starter Chrom3y
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Daydream Engineer
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I have that same situation too! She is "gaming" me with personal questions and i have known her for two months.. her BF for 10 months" . and we are going to go jogging together next week. High sexual tension and she is usually making sexual jokes about stuff.... and i natually reciprocate , like we needed a study room to study together... and she said," we need to get a room".... then out of nowhere she said..." but not too make love okay then slaps my arm" in a teasing way...
so she's flirty? hmm, well I wouldn't do anything while she has the bf, but that's a personal choice. I say keep her as an acquaintance, keep being flirty with her, and who knows what may happen in the future. But keep gaming tons of other girls.
46and2aheadofme
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She's almost certainly an attention whor. I have been in a similar situation recently where this chick with a bf would text me 1AM every couple of days saying "what are you up to right now"
She probably had a fight with her bf and is looking for an orbiter to give her some attention.
She will most likely end up disappointing you because she is only giving you spurts of attention so that you will in turn give her lots of attention.
She probably had a fight with her bf and is looking for an orbiter to give her some attention.
She will most likely end up disappointing you because she is only giving you spurts of attention so that you will in turn give her lots of attention.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Her bf lives in a different town (wtf is up with me and chicks with bf's?) but she texted me last night and I took to a sexual state i guess, not sure if it is orr not.
After she texted me I went on about crazy boxers n sh!t and she's like "yea we can shop for some thongs too" I said something(I forgot) and she's like "lets go to joyce leslie, they have very sexy lingerie for good prices". Idk if she wants me to buy her this stuff or not ( Im not buyin sh!t anyway) but Im confused on whether or not I have a chance at getting some pvssy. I've been lusting after her since she first came to my school. No one-itis tho. I just want sex.
After she texted me I went on about crazy boxers n sh!t and she's like "yea we can shop for some thongs too" I said something(I forgot) and she's like "lets go to joyce leslie, they have very sexy lingerie for good prices". Idk if she wants me to buy her this stuff or not ( Im not buyin sh!t anyway) but Im confused on whether or not I have a chance at getting some pvssy. I've been lusting after her since she first came to my school. No one-itis tho. I just want sex.
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
She may just be after some male attention or she may be after some "male attention." There's only one way to find out. I'd definitely go do some underwear shopping with her. That seems like a golden opportunity to get a handle on what's going on, hell if it were me I would even have some fun in the fitting rooms if things were going well.Chrom3y said:
SleepyRangerMedic82D
Don Juan
DUDE... LEAVE IT ALONE!!!!
Make her break it off first or something, but you are wrong for knowingly trying to pursue a girl who has a guy already..
Just keep in mind, if she is talking to you behind his back, she will ALMOST CERTAINLY do the same to you in the future
Make her break it off first or something, but you are wrong for knowingly trying to pursue a girl who has a guy already..
Just keep in mind, if she is talking to you behind his back, she will ALMOST CERTAINLY do the same to you in the future
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
If you are looking to put her in the FB category, I see no big problem. She may not be relationship material at this point. play along for a bit, its good entertainment for you. But keep spinning plates
