WHat do I do? She just keeps texting me from outta nowhere. Should I try and make moves on her? Or make it a friendly relationship? She's only been with he bf for maybe 2 months now if that helps any.. I've been posting too much =/ I need to get out!
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girl with bf who keeps texting me...?
- Thread starter Chrom3y
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Daydream Engineer
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I have that same situation too! She is "gaming" me with personal questions and i have known her for two months.. her BF for 10 months" . and we are going to go jogging together next week. High sexual tension and she is usually making sexual jokes about stuff.... and i natually reciprocate , like we needed a study room to study together... and she said," we need to get a room".... then out of nowhere she said..." but not too make love okay then slaps my arm" in a teasing way...
so she's flirty? hmm, well I wouldn't do anything while she has the bf, but that's a personal choice. I say keep her as an acquaintance, keep being flirty with her, and who knows what may happen in the future. But keep gaming tons of other girls.
46and2aheadofme
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She's almost certainly an attention whor. I have been in a similar situation recently where this chick with a bf would text me 1AM every couple of days saying "what are you up to right now"
She probably had a fight with her bf and is looking for an orbiter to give her some attention.
She will most likely end up disappointing you because she is only giving you spurts of attention so that you will in turn give her lots of attention.
She probably had a fight with her bf and is looking for an orbiter to give her some attention.
She will most likely end up disappointing you because she is only giving you spurts of attention so that you will in turn give her lots of attention.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Her bf lives in a different town (wtf is up with me and chicks with bf's?) but she texted me last night and I took to a sexual state i guess, not sure if it is orr not.
After she texted me I went on about crazy boxers n sh!t and she's like "yea we can shop for some thongs too" I said something(I forgot) and she's like "lets go to joyce leslie, they have very sexy lingerie for good prices". Idk if she wants me to buy her this stuff or not ( Im not buyin sh!t anyway) but Im confused on whether or not I have a chance at getting some pvssy. I've been lusting after her since she first came to my school. No one-itis tho. I just want sex.
After she texted me I went on about crazy boxers n sh!t and she's like "yea we can shop for some thongs too" I said something(I forgot) and she's like "lets go to joyce leslie, they have very sexy lingerie for good prices". Idk if she wants me to buy her this stuff or not ( Im not buyin sh!t anyway) but Im confused on whether or not I have a chance at getting some pvssy. I've been lusting after her since she first came to my school. No one-itis tho. I just want sex.
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
She may just be after some male attention or she may be after some "male attention." There's only one way to find out. I'd definitely go do some underwear shopping with her. That seems like a golden opportunity to get a handle on what's going on, hell if it were me I would even have some fun in the fitting rooms if things were going well.Chrom3y said:
SleepyRangerMedic82D
Don Juan
DUDE... LEAVE IT ALONE!!!!
Make her break it off first or something, but you are wrong for knowingly trying to pursue a girl who has a guy already..
Just keep in mind, if she is talking to you behind his back, she will ALMOST CERTAINLY do the same to you in the future
Make her break it off first or something, but you are wrong for knowingly trying to pursue a girl who has a guy already..
Just keep in mind, if she is talking to you behind his back, she will ALMOST CERTAINLY do the same to you in the future
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
If you are looking to put her in the FB category, I see no big problem. She may not be relationship material at this point. play along for a bit, its good entertainment for you. But keep spinning plates
