"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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joe45

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has any of u guys had a gf or even a dated a gal who wanted you to buy her clothes, and if u didn't have any money to buy it for her what did u do. i mean do u buy it for her. i am a student and i was to work and if i did i barely have enough .
all i am sayin is i now this gal who wears clothes like TNA, Puma, Roxy and other name brand stuff which are quite pricey and i am guessing if i date her i might have to fork out some money to be with her- well you now making her like me and be with me or else she might leave me for another guy. she also dyes her hair and it looks like she gets it professionally done. she more like the trendy type i guess-trend settters-something like that

myself i don;t wear anything name brandish jsut from old navy and gap mostly old navy i not rich.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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snintel

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Give me a break, fundamental principal.. you're not her freaking sugar daddy, and if she wants you to be... tell her that's not your job, if she cant respect that dump her ass.
 

Freddy1

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Becareful she could be just using you. Some women use their good looks to manipulate guys.
 

diablo

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No offense, but if you're still wondering whether you should buy clothes for someone in order to be with them you haven't learned anything from this site. I'd highly recommend you read the DJB - though you've been around for almost half a year, it may take a few more times for it to sink in. Best of luck.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb
 
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