"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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has any of u guys had a gf or even a dated a gal who wanted you to buy her clothes, and if u didn't have any money to buy it for her what did u do. i mean do u buy it for her. i am a student and i was to work and if i did i barely have enough .
all i am sayin is i now this gal who wears clothes like TNA, Puma, Roxy and other name brand stuff which are quite pricey and i am guessing if i date her i might have to fork out some money to be with her- well you now making her like me and be with me or else she might leave me for another guy. she also dyes her hair and it looks like she gets it professionally done. she more like the trendy type i guess-trend settters-something like that

myself i don;t wear anything name brandish jsut from old navy and gap mostly old navy i not rich.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Give me a break, fundamental principal.. you're not her freaking sugar daddy, and if she wants you to be... tell her that's not your job, if she cant respect that dump her ass.
 
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Becareful she could be just using you. Some women use their good looks to manipulate guys.
 
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No offense, but if you're still wondering whether you should buy clothes for someone in order to be with them you haven't learned anything from this site. I'd highly recommend you read the DJB - though you've been around for almost half a year, it may take a few more times for it to sink in. Best of luck.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb
 
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