Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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has any of u guys had a gf or even a dated a gal who wanted you to buy her clothes, and if u didn't have any money to buy it for her what did u do. i mean do u buy it for her. i am a student and i was to work and if i did i barely have enough .
all i am sayin is i now this gal who wears clothes like TNA, Puma, Roxy and other name brand stuff which are quite pricey and i am guessing if i date her i might have to fork out some money to be with her- well you now making her like me and be with me or else she might leave me for another guy. she also dyes her hair and it looks like she gets it professionally done. she more like the trendy type i guess-trend settters-something like that

myself i don;t wear anything name brandish jsut from old navy and gap mostly old navy i not rich.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Give me a break, fundamental principal.. you're not her freaking sugar daddy, and if she wants you to be... tell her that's not your job, if she cant respect that dump her ass.
 
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Becareful she could be just using you. Some women use their good looks to manipulate guys.
 
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No offense, but if you're still wondering whether you should buy clothes for someone in order to be with them you haven't learned anything from this site. I'd highly recommend you read the DJB - though you've been around for almost half a year, it may take a few more times for it to sink in. Best of luck.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb
 
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