How do you guys handle girls who seem interested in you because they flirt with you but they also flirt with alot of other guys too. This chick flirts with me and theres alot of kino and positive signs of attraction, but then I see her doing the same stuff with alot of other guys and it kind of pisses me off. The thing is its like the other guys dont even flirt back really or use kino but I do. But it seems like she likes them more. I dunno mayb I just want to get this chick to be all about me 100% and noone else.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Girl who flirts with everyone
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Criminal Mind
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Quite possibly, the girl is a natural flirt and you could be interpreting it as an indicator of interest in you.
You could also be taking it out a little hard on yourself and over analysing the situation.
You could also be taking it out a little hard on yourself and over analysing the situation.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
She likes attention.
This doesn't mean jack for you, dont waste your time on her.
This doesn't mean jack for you, dont waste your time on her.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
She does it more to the other guys because they ignore her, and she cant figure out why... You wanna win? Pay mad attention to her, and then just ignore her, and see how bad she tries to get your attention again.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
good advice splinter, do u think i should like hang out with her a couple times then ignore her, i kind of dont want to loose this chick because i wanna bang her and i wouldnt mind goin out with her either if she stoped flirting with other guys
MightyMate
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**** her. Make her love You. And then get other girls.
She's not worth second thinking IMO. If you REALLY want to try and move things along with her in some way, just call her bluff and go for the kill. If it's a no-go, then just move on, simple. Drawing her in then dropping her cold is only going to serve as an effective time-waster.
Dimebag_Darrell
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You must neg her.
She's a girl who needs attention and you're her water fountain in a sense. you give her attention and once she's got it, shes satisfied and she moves on because you don't serve no other purpose.
you need re evaluate the situation, and totally change up what you do with her but also make sure you stand out and demonstrate value in front of her at the same time. If there are any other cute girls in this class, they will be the key to this one girl and even then you'll see that maybe this girl isn't all worth it for you
She's a girl who needs attention and you're her water fountain in a sense. you give her attention and once she's got it, shes satisfied and she moves on because you don't serve no other purpose.
you need re evaluate the situation, and totally change up what you do with her but also make sure you stand out and demonstrate value in front of her at the same time. If there are any other cute girls in this class, they will be the key to this one girl and even then you'll see that maybe this girl isn't all worth it for you
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.