How do you guys handle girls who seem interested in you because they flirt with you but they also flirt with alot of other guys too. This chick flirts with me and theres alot of kino and positive signs of attraction, but then I see her doing the same stuff with alot of other guys and it kind of pisses me off. The thing is its like the other guys dont even flirt back really or use kino but I do. But it seems like she likes them more. I dunno mayb I just want to get this chick to be all about me 100% and noone else.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girl who flirts with everyone
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Quite possibly, the girl is a natural flirt and you could be interpreting it as an indicator of interest in you.
You could also be taking it out a little hard on yourself and over analysing the situation.
You could also be taking it out a little hard on yourself and over analysing the situation.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
She likes attention.
This doesn't mean jack for you, dont waste your time on her.
This doesn't mean jack for you, dont waste your time on her.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
She does it more to the other guys because they ignore her, and she cant figure out why... You wanna win? Pay mad attention to her, and then just ignore her, and see how bad she tries to get your attention again.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
good advice splinter, do u think i should like hang out with her a couple times then ignore her, i kind of dont want to loose this chick because i wanna bang her and i wouldnt mind goin out with her either if she stoped flirting with other guys
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**** her. Make her love You. And then get other girls.
She's not worth second thinking IMO. If you REALLY want to try and move things along with her in some way, just call her bluff and go for the kill. If it's a no-go, then just move on, simple. Drawing her in then dropping her cold is only going to serve as an effective time-waster.
Dimebag_Darrell
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You must neg her.
She's a girl who needs attention and you're her water fountain in a sense. you give her attention and once she's got it, shes satisfied and she moves on because you don't serve no other purpose.
you need re evaluate the situation, and totally change up what you do with her but also make sure you stand out and demonstrate value in front of her at the same time. If there are any other cute girls in this class, they will be the key to this one girl and even then you'll see that maybe this girl isn't all worth it for you
She's a girl who needs attention and you're her water fountain in a sense. you give her attention and once she's got it, shes satisfied and she moves on because you don't serve no other purpose.
you need re evaluate the situation, and totally change up what you do with her but also make sure you stand out and demonstrate value in front of her at the same time. If there are any other cute girls in this class, they will be the key to this one girl and even then you'll see that maybe this girl isn't all worth it for you
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.