How do you guys handle girls who seem interested in you because they flirt with you but they also flirt with alot of other guys too. This chick flirts with me and theres alot of kino and positive signs of attraction, but then I see her doing the same stuff with alot of other guys and it kind of pisses me off. The thing is its like the other guys dont even flirt back really or use kino but I do. But it seems like she likes them more. I dunno mayb I just want to get this chick to be all about me 100% and noone else.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Girl who flirts with everyone
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Criminal Mind
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Quite possibly, the girl is a natural flirt and you could be interpreting it as an indicator of interest in you.
You could also be taking it out a little hard on yourself and over analysing the situation.
You could also be taking it out a little hard on yourself and over analysing the situation.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
She likes attention.
This doesn't mean jack for you, dont waste your time on her.
This doesn't mean jack for you, dont waste your time on her.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
She does it more to the other guys because they ignore her, and she cant figure out why... You wanna win? Pay mad attention to her, and then just ignore her, and see how bad she tries to get your attention again.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
good advice splinter, do u think i should like hang out with her a couple times then ignore her, i kind of dont want to loose this chick because i wanna bang her and i wouldnt mind goin out with her either if she stoped flirting with other guys
MightyMate
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**** her. Make her love You. And then get other girls.
She's not worth second thinking IMO. If you REALLY want to try and move things along with her in some way, just call her bluff and go for the kill. If it's a no-go, then just move on, simple. Drawing her in then dropping her cold is only going to serve as an effective time-waster.
Dimebag_Darrell
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You must neg her.
She's a girl who needs attention and you're her water fountain in a sense. you give her attention and once she's got it, shes satisfied and she moves on because you don't serve no other purpose.
you need re evaluate the situation, and totally change up what you do with her but also make sure you stand out and demonstrate value in front of her at the same time. If there are any other cute girls in this class, they will be the key to this one girl and even then you'll see that maybe this girl isn't all worth it for you
She's a girl who needs attention and you're her water fountain in a sense. you give her attention and once she's got it, shes satisfied and she moves on because you don't serve no other purpose.
you need re evaluate the situation, and totally change up what you do with her but also make sure you stand out and demonstrate value in front of her at the same time. If there are any other cute girls in this class, they will be the key to this one girl and even then you'll see that maybe this girl isn't all worth it for you
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.