Girl who dumped me 2 weeks ago, texts today, how to set up as FwB?

[DamnSon]

NC

I am 100% if she never comes back **** her then. She didn't value me and now being out of her life she still doesn't see value, I'm honestly just starting to lose what I felt. Dunno how I'd feel if I see her in person, but I'm just feeling a bit disgusted. We'll see though

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Dont try and work out why it is irrelevant. Just judge by actions.
She is a proven liar. She dumped you. If she wants to hook up again she will make it obvious.

Do nothing till she makes some effort. Look how much you are investing in this flakey liar.

 

[DamnSon]

Again as a general rule if you find something wrong at gut level, feel stressed, confused or pissed off then you're sure its your gut letting you know that it doesnt work.

Any girl worth your time and effort that has a decent interest wont confuse you, annoy you, stress you and most of all force you to open a thread here asking for suggestions.

I always say this, but I never believe it when I'm actually in the thick of it haha. It's hard for me to see it black and white when emotions are invested. Like oh maybe I'm paranoid or maybe I ****ed it up somehow. I guess we'll see what time brings

 

[wifehunter]

I always say this, but I never believe it when I'm actually in the thick of it haha. It's hard for me to see it black and white when emotions are invested. Like oh maybe I'm paranoid or maybe I ****ed it up somehow. I guess we'll see what time brings

Take some time... regroup and reflect!

 

[devilkingx2]

i would've said not to respond in the first place, if she dumps you she can fvck off.

going backwards usually isn't a good idea because of the low chance of getting laid and the high chance of making a fool of yourself

 

[DamnSon]

I guess it all depends on my perception of the situation, If i'm over the girl, she has no power, If I'm just hooking up with her and keeping her arm's reach and not over-investing, until she proves herself.. then you know, what's the harm?

Haven't heard from her, 2 days NC. We'll see.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

If she is invested she will contact you. Otherwise no big deal.

 

[DamnSon]

If she is invested she will contact you. Otherwise no big deal.

I dunno what she was tying to get from me 2 days ago. To be absolved from guilt or something..she didn't hang out so.. we'll see, you're right, time will tell. She was special to me but there are a lot of hot girls that I can laugh and enjoy life with..what makes her so special? The memories and time invested?

 

[sazc]

I dunno what she was tying to get from me 2 days ago. To be absolved from guilt or something..she didn't hang out so.. we'll see, you're right, time will tell. She was special to me but there are a lot of hot girls that I can laugh and enjoy life with..what makes her so special? The memories and time invested?

this too shall pass (im not trying to be mean, it's a fact you'll figure out) someday you'll look back and think (fondly) wow, that was fun, glad I lived thru that, glad I let that go and didnt hang on"

 

[marmel75]

I dunno what she was tying to get from me 2 days ago. To be absolved from guilt or something..she didn't hang out so.. we'll see, you're right, time will tell. She was special to me but there are a lot of hot girls that I can laugh and enjoy life with..what makes her so special? The memories and time invested?

Special how? She wasn't you're girlfriend, she was just some random chick you put on this pedestal and made her out to be something she isn't.

 

[DamnSon]

Special how? She wasn't you're girlfriend, she was just some random chick you put on this pedestal and made her out to be something she isn't.

She was, we dated. It was a short relationship though less than 5 months. I was only looking to hook up at first, but we clicked and were magnetic..after years of me just literally running through girls and never wanting to open up or be emotional..somehow this girl got to me.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Yup... That happens. Treasure it and the special time you had together.

Now move on.

 

[marmel75]

She was, we dated. It was a short relationship though less than 5 months. I was only looking to hook up at first, but we clicked and were magnetic..after years of me just literally running through girls and never wanting to open up or be emotional..somehow this girl got to me.

She was special because you made her special and didn't see the flaws she had because it was easier to see the version of her you made up in your mind instead of the actual version of her she really was.

 

[EyeBRollin]

When a chick hits me up that blew me off, I give a one word response. If they send a 2nd message to have a convo, I immediately ask them to come over. If they refuse, it's back to NC.

I only do this for chicks already had sex with. If you haven't ****ed this chick, just block her number and forget about her. Please.

 

[DamnSon]

When a chick hits me up that blew me off, I give a one word response. If they send a 2nd message to have a convo, I immediately ask them to come over. If they refuse, it's back to NC.

I only do this for chicks already had sex with. If you haven't ****ed this chick, just block her number and forget about her. Please.

I ****ed her brains out, and asked her to come over, If wasn't emotionally vested i.e generally hope she has a good life with or without me, I'd probably be a real douchebag. (she didnt come over) but like I said shes home for a month so we'll see what happens.