Here is the situation. This girl I met at my homeboy's party has been asking him questions bout me and she got my number from him because she said she thought I was cute. The chick calls me and we talk so we set something up for yesterday. She calls me yesterday and cancels but she gives me a good excuse and she says how bout friday which is today. Should I have told her no or should I just go today anyway since she showed high interest level?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Girl who canceled date
- Thread starter SuperSav
- Start date