"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl who canceled date

SuperSav

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Here is the situation. This girl I met at my homeboy's party has been asking him questions bout me and she got my number from him because she said she thought I was cute. The chick calls me and we talk so we set something up for yesterday. She calls me yesterday and cancels but she gives me a good excuse and she says how bout friday which is today. Should I have told her no or should I just go today anyway since she showed high interest level?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If she initiated the counter offer, you're fine. She probably gave a valid excuse.
 
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Why not? What else are you going to do, watch scooby doo on the cartoon network???

Go out with this aggresssive wh@re but don't let her dictate how, when, and where - you are still the man so take the initiative from here!
 

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Go out with her tonight fool. Counter-offers are better than a girl not even doing anything.
 
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