"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl who canceled date

SuperSav

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Here is the situation. This girl I met at my homeboy's party has been asking him questions bout me and she got my number from him because she said she thought I was cute. The chick calls me and we talk so we set something up for yesterday. She calls me yesterday and cancels but she gives me a good excuse and she says how bout friday which is today. Should I have told her no or should I just go today anyway since she showed high interest level?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If she initiated the counter offer, you're fine. She probably gave a valid excuse.
 
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Why not? What else are you going to do, watch scooby doo on the cartoon network???

Go out with this aggresssive wh@re but don't let her dictate how, when, and where - you are still the man so take the initiative from here!
 

DJ_Dork

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Go out with her tonight fool. Counter-offers are better than a girl not even doing anything.
 
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